Okay hey guys, I'd really appreciate all feedback here so here goes.
I turned 16 in May and I got my (previously confiscated) tablet and laptop back. With the return my parents told me that they were now my property and I could do what I liked with them. This part isn't important yet but will come in later in the question.
So my curfew to be home every single night is before it gets dark, it's been like this since I was about 14, but now it's getting dark later they've changed it to 9:30.
All my friends are out until 12am/1am and I've tried telling my parents this but they refuse to have it, even when I'm getting a lift home they want me home before 10pm.
Today I was meeting some friends to revise for my Chem exam tomorrow but because they "didn't believe where I was going" they refused to let me out of the house. This was at 4:30pm. Because I don't have a phone and rarely use Facebook, this was prearranged and therefore couldn't tell my friends I wasn't coming.
Then the same friends who I was supposed to meet texted my mum and told her they were waiting for me, but even with this evidence she made me stay in because she didn't believe me.
I'm not allowed to parties unless my dad drops me off and picks me up, I'm not allowed out of my town unless it's for very specific reasons, I'm not allowed out past 9:30pm and I'm not allowed out of the house without their permission?! Their point is that I don't pay rent so I don't get to choose, but I have a job and offer them board and they turn it down.
If I do just leave the house I know that they can't force me to come back, but they have threatened to take my laptop and tablet off me again. So I don't know how to handle the situation - do I fight for my freedom and lose the last shreds of technology at the beginning of my A-Levels or do I let them treat me like I'm 14?
I have no idea about other peoples curfews so I'd just really appreciate everyone telling me what they were allowed to do at 16 and whether this is unfair and most importantly how I deal with this and how I let them know that I need more freedom.
How do I get it into their heads that my curfew is commonly 3/4 hours less than other people my age and how do I negotiate?!