Penis wont fit inside of me and I don't know why?

is he your first time?

get a lot of lube

You Are TOO Young! THAT IS WHY IT HAS REFUSED!

We've tried! We literally lubed up as much as possible, haha.

Just try to relax. I know it's difficult when it's your first time (assuming that it is), but the trick is plenty of lube and just trying to relax. Don't feel embarrassed and just be sure that you're both completely comfortable with each other. Has he tried more fingers? That might help stretch you a bit.
Ask him to go slow and your body will adjust around him. I remember my first couple of times were similar to your experience but just persevere!

You Are TOO Young! THAT IS WHY IT HAS REFUSED!

Thank you. I did secretly buy a vibrator that I would say was average penis size to try to stretch myself but I just can't get that in either! It's not even like it hurts me much, it more feels like an actual barrier that just cannot be passed .



I'm 19...

Hi, sorry for the graphic post!

Me and my boyfriend have tried to have sex a couple of times... yet it just doesn't happen.

I've used tampons for years, and he can fit two fingers inside of me (sorry) but I just don't seem to be able to stretch enough for a penis. I don't know if I still have my hymen (I've tried looking but I just can't really tell), but I thought that it's usually broken when tampons are used?
My boyfriend can usually get about an inch in and then it's like he just can't get any further in. When I've tried to feel why this is, I can feel a ring of tough flesh (?) about an inch in that kind of 'pops' if I push further - yet this 'pop' just wont happen when we try to have sex!

Any ideas?

Are you trying to screw Gaz from Geordie Shore?

Jokes aside, you sound like you're a bit too tensed up, or need to start with something smaller i.e. as someone else said, him using his hands more. Maybe a bit more foreplay could help?

hahaha!

The thing is, I think that we do do this! Without being too graphic, I would definitely say that I was 'ready' when we've tried. But thank you, I guess we just need to try some more.

try foreplay, prolonged sexual arousment "deepens" the vagina... apparently.
other than that lube
or get a dildo and see if that goes any further or how hard you have to push and if it doesnt hurt then, you know get him to work a bit more and push harder without hurting you.

Let him do anal then...