Well as a current 2nd year undergrad at Exeter, i have to admit that Exeter is Posh. But still everyone still gets along very well. Its not so bad as everyone thinks it is. I have friends at Exeter that went to Eton, Harrow et al, and i am from a state school. Though, i'll admit, some of our interests our very different. for instance, some of my friend's from Eton and Harrow are avid Polo players. Obviously, this is a posh thing. but besdies that, banter with them is always still good.