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If I think that im good looking and others don't..

does this mean that im not good looking? I can see why people don't think im good looking in terms of spots and messy hair but I think underneath Im good looking. What is good looking though? Does it mean like nice hair and clear skin type of thing or does it refer to features?

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Reply 1

Anonymous
does this mean that im not good looking? I can see why people don't think im good looking in terms of spots and messy hair but I think underneath Im good looking. What is good looking though? Does it mean like nice hair and clear skin type of thing or does it refer to features?

That is all down to opinion and the people you know, like a group of chavs would say to a emo there not goodlooking, but obviously a chav would probablly say to a chav there goodlooking u c.

Reply 2

MNBStyle
That is all down to opinion and the people you know, like a group of chavs would say to a emo there not goodlooking, but obviously a chav would probablly say to a chav there goodlooking u c.


well basically a year ago about I was messing around with a big group of friends and we all rated each other and added up scores (but didn't know who rated what etc) and I got the lowest of 4.7 yet I think I have good normal features, I don't have a big nose or anything.

Reply 3

Anonymous
well basically a year ago about I was messing around with a big group of friends and we all rated each other and added up scores (but didn't know who rated what etc) and I got the lowest of 4.7 yet I think I have good normal features, I don't have a big nose or anything.

Then obviously thats just the opinion of the people you was with, so therefore i wouldn't worry about it to much.

Reply 4

I thought that I had nicer features than the ones who were rated 7 and 8 who to me were just average but well dressed and had fashionable clothes, unlike me.

Reply 5

Anonymous
I thought that I had nicer features than the ones who were rated 7 and 8 who to me were just average but well dressed and had fashionable clothes, unlike me.

Then obviously that particular group of people prefer well dressed people or perhaps it was something more simple, like i say dont worry about it especially as it was just abit of fun anyway

Reply 6

MNBStyle
Then obviously that particular group of people prefer well dressed people or perhaps it was something more simple, like i say dont worry about it especially as it was just abit of fun anyway


kk, its just now I think im seeing myself wrong and not noticing my faults or something.

Reply 7

Anonymous
kk, its just now I think im seeing myself wrong and not noticing my faults or something.

Maybe your just not there type in that way, if you had any major faults you would of noticed by now so i wouldnt worry about that either.

Reply 8

MNBStyle
Maybe your just not there type in that way, if you had any major faults you would of noticed by now so i wouldnt worry about that either.


I won't, thanks

Reply 9

Anonymous
I won't, thanks

Anytime :wink: your welcome to thank me by voting for me in TSR's sexiest member in chat section :p:
Sorry i wont win but i cant resist plugging it :wink:

Reply 10

well being good looking involves features as well as how you present yourself.

go to your GP about your spots and the hairdresser to sort your hair and get some decent clothes and you're sorted.

Reply 11

MNBStyle
Anytime :wink: your welcome to thank me by voting for me in TSR's sexiest member in chat section :p:
Sorry i wont win but i cant resist plugging it :wink:


kk, I'l go across Ive nothing else to do:redface:

Reply 12

go and buy some clothes from burton if you tight with money or if you have money then use it wisely. at the end of the day you are unique in your own way. you might be rated low but then again if you dressed well it be different. but hey, don't worry about it!!!

Reply 13

You shouldn't take a few peoples views as gospel on whether you're good looking or not.

But you noticed that the ones who were rated higher tended to dress well etc...Very few people are born beautiful. Looking good is all about making the most of your potential; if you think you have lots of potential, say, in the form of a good bone structure, nice eyes, nice features, then even better for you :smile: but you might still be judged as less attractive if you don't look like you've made a bit of an effort.

Reply 14

Yah im kind of the same as you OP. Some of my friends dont think im good looking and some chav called me ugly on the street the other day, yet they are about 3-4 girls in my class that say im "cute" while most others wudnt.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder must be true.

Reply 15

If you ask people to rate your looks, you need to know how to take it well, and not get offended. Short of posting a photo of yourself, there's nothing anyone can really say to you on here except "those people thought you were below average. you don't. so maybe you're somewhere in between?"

Reply 16

a few of my photos get high ratings, but most of them get average/above average

Reply 17

i forgot to add this was on hotornot.com.

2 photos got 9+ and about 5 got in the range of 7-8

Reply 18

MNBStyle
Then obviously that particular group of people prefer well dressed people or perhaps it was something more simple, like i say dont worry about it especially as it was just abit of fun anyway


do you have to widen doors to get that swelled head of yours through it.

oh and you cannot be baseing an argument on hotornot ratings that sites a joke

Reply 19

post a pic
we'll tell u :tongue: