Do I fancy him?

I have a weird situation with a male friend. I'm sort of attracted to him - but not physically. I always want to be around him and I like it when he hugs me. BUT I don't get those fuzzy feelings in my tummy/shortness of breath and other symptoms of a crush. I always want to see him and when I do i have a big smile on my face. We kinda had a 'kissing incident' which he deemed a mistake and not to happen again a while back. He has a long term girlfriend. I think about him a hell of a lot.

Am I getting confused over this friendship? What should I do? And do I actually fancy him? I wouldnt say he was phsycially attractive, but parts of him are.

Reply 1

Mr. Mortell

Are you particularly friendly with him? If so it could be "romantic friendship"...or the beginnings of one. Look it up on Wikipedia.

Reply 2

Chewwy

does he have nice ear lobes?

Reply 3

theonehitwonder

Awww... how cute. I think the more that you're with him, the more that you're feeling attracted to him. I think that over time, you will ignore the attracted to looks part, and just be attracted to him overall. Seeing as he has a long term partner, I would tread very carefully, otherwise things could get messy.