Shy girl- how do i get her to meet up with me?

Hello all

I'm in a bit of a dilemma :confused:

Over xmas, i found out that a girl was interested in me through one of her best friends :smile:

. As i was also interested i invited her to go for a drink with me several times but was turned down each and every time. Apparently the reason for this (through another friend) is that she was shy and nervous about meeting up with me. (i think that its quite awkward between the 2 of us as we don't know where we stand with one another)

I really want to go out with her and i know she wants to out with me, but i can't exactly go out with her if she's too shy to meet up with me!

Is anyone in the same situation as me? if so, what did you do to reduce the awkwardness?

Thanks a lot :biggrin:

Reply 1

BJ-Dubois

I'm not shy. Why don't you take me out on a drink and forget about her.

Reply 2

Yoda

Unfortunatly with shy people I'd recomend you fail a bit. Don't do this with real girls, but let her set it up, and leave it as that. Tell her 5 or 6 days you're free (not too close to each other) and drop the subject.