what should i do

okay, well i have had a boyfriend for a long time (nearly a year), we're happy enough even though we argue all the time

so neway recently went out with my friends and got very very smashed, and ended up going home with a guy who i kind of know. and on the way i was feeling sleepy and kept on putting my head on his shoulder or whatever and he like put his arm around me.. and we were holding hands for a bit as well. i dont even know him that well.
i felt really guilty when i woke up this morning. but i dont know what to do.
its not technically "cheating" but it was waywayway out of order. ergh.
part of me just wants to forget it but i know its really bad and i cant
i dont think being really drunk is even a good enough excuse..meh
i cant even tell my friends bout it because i dont want to admit it to anyone ah
what wld u do

Reply 1

silverbolt

forget about it, you havent done anything in the slightest wrong you were very drunk and tired.

Just put it behind you

Reply 2

kylie88

yeah just forget about it, its no big deal.

god your a saint compaired to me lol

Reply 3

b9muslove

Don't worry...you were really smashed, i'm sure some of your friends have found themselves in your situation. Don't blame yourself and feel guilty. It sounds like you have a good relationship with your boyfriend, especially when you are feeling so guilty about the situation. Don't let something as small as this put you down :smile:

Reply 4

Inflicted

I don't see what you think you done wrong but if you believe so then so be it.
However although you think this I'm sure your boyfriend will understand the situation considering the fact that you got very drunk.
If you really feel guilty about it then just explain to him what happened and assure him that there was no meaning in the matter, like I said I'm sure he'll understand.

I guess what you can do is make sure the guy you went home with doesn't read into the head on shoulder, arm around you, holding hands thing; but then again he might not even read into it... since, I assume, you were clearly drunk.
What you can also do is thank him for taking you home safely.