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Can't get a gf, just use an escort?

I'm so tired of it. I can never get a gf, I always feel inferior to other men, when I talk to them I just give up as I know they can have someone better than me.

Should I just use an escort and get rid of my sexual tension? I mean I want an emotional connection with a girl but I know that'll never happen. Are using escorts safe enough?
Never tried talking to girls online? Maybe you could develop some kind of basic connection before the first real date, you'd know what you have in common and you'd have some convo topics to fall back on, then the first dates would be easier and eventually after a few meeting you're bound to get physical. I'm not saying you'll definitely hit it off with the first girl you encounter, but this way meeting girls you'll gain some experience and in the end you're certain to find someone who suits you.
that's the last thing you need. whatever happened to your career and hobbies and "actual" friends?
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Original post by Viridiana
Never tried talking to girls online? Maybe you could develop some kind of basic connection before the first real date, you'd know what you have in common and you'd have some convo topics to fall back on, then the first dates would be easier and eventually after a few meeting you're bound to get physical. I'm not saying you'll definitely hit it off with the first girl you encounter, but this way meeting girls you'll gain some experience and in the end you're certain to find someone who suits you.


I've met some nice girls online. But always live so far. I'm always told long distance stuff never works so I never try. And I dont want to sound weird by telling them I like them even though we havnt met irl.

I can't drive yet either :/

Original post by shawn_o1
that's the last thing you need. whatever happened to your career and hobbies and "actual" friends?


No friends left, been abandoned by everyone.
Original post by Anonymous
I've met some nice girls online. But always live so far. I'm always told long distance stuff never works so I never try. And I dont want to sound weird by telling them I like them even though we havnt met irl.

I can't drive yet either :/



No friends left, been abandoned by everyone.


I'm sure that's not true
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I get lots of girls. This is not a joke. Don't use a prostitute,
Original post by Anonymous
I've met some nice girls online. But always live so far. I'm always told long distance stuff never works so I never try. And I dont want to sound weird by telling them I like them even though we havnt met irl.

I can't drive yet either :/




So if you don't want to get into such situations try filtering girls on dating sites by location. I'm sure dating sites and apps are a better solution than an escort. Or you can combine the solutions, get an escort for your sexual needs if you can afford it but at the same time start looking for a girl of your own to get off escorts because they are not your perfect solution for life.
Original post by Anonymous
I've met some nice girls online. But always live so far. I'm always told long distance stuff never works so I never try. And I dont want to sound weird by telling them I like them even though we havnt met irl.
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Original post by Anonymous
I'm so tired of it. I can never get a gf, I always feel inferior to other men, when I talk to them I just give up as I know they can have someone better than me.

Should I just use an escort and get rid of my sexual tension? I mean I want an emotional connection with a girl but I know that'll never happen. Are using escorts safe enough?

Are you certain your issue isn't rooted in confidence, pessimism and self-esteem issues? Using an escort will be counter-productive.
Original post by Anonymous
I'm so tired of it. I can never get a gf, I always feel inferior to other men, when I talk to them I just give up as I know they can have someone better than me.

Should I just use an escort and get rid of my sexual tension? I mean I want an emotional connection with a girl but I know that'll never happen. Are using escorts safe enough?


Use Tinder bro.

You'll get buckets of pussy.
Original post by Anonymous
I always feel inferior to other men, when I talk to them I just give up as I know they can have someone better than me.


There can only be so many 'superior men' out there... not every girl can have one :wink:
Your first paragraph pretty much sums up my situation too, but an escort wouldn't solve anything. What would be the point?

Why not just focus on your career instead. I've long accepted that the only hope I ever have of meeting someone is to just to keep progressing in my career, earn a lot of money and hope that attracts someone. I know that sounds really lame but it's not going to happen any other way.
Original post by Anonymous
I'm so tired of it. I can never get a gf, I always feel inferior to other men, when I talk to them I just give up as I know they can have someone better than me.

Should I just use an escort and get rid of my sexual tension? I mean I want an emotional connection with a girl but I know that'll never happen. Are using escorts safe enough?


If you have a shadow of empathy you won't do this. I tried it before, but not sex and it was horrible as you would see them and their smile is fake and the room is so thick full of body fluids and it feels disgusting. By the time I saw her and I saw many whilst wandering in soho with friends, u didn't want to spend too much time with any of them as you can tell that they really dont like it and it's sad. Not only is it an immediate turn off but the guilt still kind of plagues me. I would have felt better by just handing her my money and walking out wowiwith my dignity
Lack of confidence is your killer. Sort it out and man up.

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