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I'm quite submissive, I like people telling me what to do and lead me in most situations. Not to say that I don't have my own opinions, I just like listening to other people.

I feel like I need to be protected so I wouldn't mind someone that's over-protective as I will know they care.

I am really loyal.

I will happily do all the cooking and cleaning and do whatever is needed to keep him happy within reason.

From what I know, guys prefer girls that have more independence. So just wondering if being submissive is a bad thing?
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I'm quite submissive, I like people telling me what to do and lead me in most situations. Not to say that I don't have my own opinions, I just like listening to other people.

I feel like I need to be protected so I wouldn't mind someone that's over-protective as I will know they care.

I am really loyal.

I will happily do all the cooking and cleaning and do whatever is needed to keep him happy within reason.

From what I know, guys prefer girls that have more independence. So just wondering if being submissive is a bad thing?
As long as she's not too needy/clingy and has her own opinions, don't see why not.
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(Original post by localblackguy)
As long as she's not too needy/clingy and has her own opinions, don't see why not.
Lol, everyone has an opinion. It's about whether people choose to voice it that's important to some.
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Lol, everyone has an opinion. It's about whether people choose to voice it that's important to some.
That's what I was implying.
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Yeah dudette any day
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Everyone has different preferences. Personally I'd be happy with a submissive girl.
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I would love to date a submissive girl over any other personality
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Hmm, you better be on your guard. There's no telling when you're actually dating a potential criminal record holder
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I'm quite submissive, I like people telling me what to do and lead me in most situations. Not to say that I don't have my own opinions, I just like listening to other people.

I feel like I need to be protected so I wouldn't mind someone that's over-protective as I will know they care.

I am really loyal.

I will happily do all the cooking and cleaning and do whatever is needed to keep him happy within reason.

From what I know, guys prefer girls that have more independence. So just wondering if being submissive is a bad thing?
Hell yes. You've pretty much described my future wife. I love been in control.
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Would be fine IMO
(Original post by Anonymous)
From what I know, guys prefer girls that have more independence. So just wondering if being submissive is a bad thing?
Can't generalise relationship preferences (or even sexual preferences for that matter) like this. Different guys are into different stuff, fam.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I'm quite submissive, I like people telling me what to do and lead me in most situations. Not to say that I don't have my own opinions, I just like listening to other people.

I feel like I need to be protected so I wouldn't mind someone that's over-protective as I will know they care.

I am really loyal.

I will happily do all the cooking and cleaning and do whatever is needed to keep him happy within reason.

From what I know, guys prefer girls that have more independence. So just wondering if being submissive is a bad thing?
I believe myself to innately be a Dom. As well as this, I'm the eldest of 4 without there ever being a paternal influence in our family. So I unconsciously adopted a more dominant role within the family. And so, a woman who's naturally submissive may be appropriate for me personally, as I'm so used to making decisions and being responsible for others etc (I was also the Head Coach of my Uni's men's basketball team). But that's just me I guess, I may be a minority in that regard.
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Will you marry me?
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I think it wouldn't work with me as I'd feel guilty the whole time :3

Whenever people do things for me I feel bad, so personally I look for a relationship where I am 'equal' with my partner.

However, I'm only 17 and such things are above me...
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Not my thing really. I mean, I prefer girls who like to be equal to their partner in a relationship.
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You describe that as though it's rare, in my opinion it's very common. In fact my problem is girls wanting you to play that role, and you wanting a girl who's a bit more the other way. There are tons of guys and girls who have relationships this way in my view.
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I'm a submissive woman too but I'm not sure how to go about finding a dominant partner. No one has been quite there yet
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I'd rather a more strong willed woman tbh but I suppose it wouldn't be an issue
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I prefer submissive girls. Love a girl that will make me a sandwich when I ask them to.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I'm quite submissive, I like people telling me what to do and lead me in most situations. Not to say that I don't have my own opinions, I just like listening to other people.

I feel like I need to be protected so I wouldn't mind someone that's over-protective as I will know they care.

I am really loyal.

I will happily do all the cooking and cleaning and do whatever is needed to keep him happy within reason.

From what I know, guys prefer girls that have more independence. So just wondering if being submissive is a bad thing?
My girlfriend is currently kind of submissive but will not take any crap if i demand she cook something or do something else. It does depend on you as a person as I don't mind but if it feels that you're not really engaging in the relationship then tbh, there isn't a whole lot to look forward to imo
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I'd rather a submissive girl tbh. I think most guys would actually.
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