Friend --> Relationship...again?

Ok this is just a little bit different to the other threads which have a very simular title to mine.

Back in December I asked out a close friend (after asking for advice here). Everything seemed great, we went out and had the best time ever for a month. Even when we broke up because neither of us could see it going anywere, the relationship bought us sooo much closer toghether and we pretty much agreed to stay best friends forever.

However, things became bad when I found out she had been talking behind my back during the relationship with her friends...I'm not going to go into detail but lets just say because of us going out, we are never ever going to speak to one another again. I haven't spoken to her in 2 weeks and never plan on doing so again, I know for a fact shes not good for me...but I still miss her and kinda wish I had never gone out with her so we could still have the fun we used to have back when we were friends.

So during these two weeks, I've been chatting to another girl who fancies the hell outta me (according to her mates). Shes really good looking and has the greatest personality, I love being mates with her but...I can tell she wants more.

I dont want to wait and I'm either going to go for it now, or never. So do you think I should ask her out or not?

Sorry about grammer, long paragraphs, repeating myself, etc...writing this in a rush so I can get back to work :smile:

Reply 1

Elements

13

If that's what both of you want and feel ready for- you and this new girl, I mean, then go for it! :smile:

Reply 2

Inflicted

You miss girl 1 but you have decided never to talk to her again.

Another girl (girl 2) in the "situation", she likes you, you like her, go for it and forget about girl 1; it's too bad that you decided to never speak to her again for whatever reason but if you think that's for the best for you and her (girl 1) then so be it.

Take care and I hope things go well for you and your potentially new relationship.

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

OP

Inflicted

You miss girl 1 but you have decided never to talk to her again.

Another girl (girl 2) in the "situation", she likes you, you like her, go for it and forget about girl 1; it's too bad that you decided to never speak to her again for whatever reason but if you think that's for the best for you and her (girl 1) then so be it.

Take care and I hope things go well for you and your potentially new relationship.

so is it worth going for it? :frown:

Reply 4

Reue

20

Deffinatly go for it. With luck it'll also annoy Girl 1.

If you like girl 2 back, why bother waiting around, it dosent sound like your madly in love with girl 1 anymore at all.

Reply 5

Inflicted

Anonymous

so is it worth going for it? :frown:

I'm really sorry if I didn't make myself clear.
YES, GO FOR IT :biggrin:

All the best.

Reply 6

theonehitwonder

2

Go now before you end up making another one of these threads in a month!!! :smile:

Reply 7

Anonymous #2

Definately go for girl 2. By saying things about you behind your back girl 1 has completely betrayed your trust and she deserves nothing but pain and heartache - maybe she'll feel that if you get with somebody else.

Move on, now, before it's too late.

Reply 8

IndianDiva

Go for girl 2.... girl 1 obviously didn't appreciate you enough, and you clearly don't want to talk to her by the sound of things... you have nothing to lose.

Reply 9

Sam2005

5

Yeah go for it!! Life's too short and getting with her will probably help you forget about the other b**ch :tongue:

Friend --> Relationship...again?

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