Flirting

How the heck do you flirt?

Heres the story i'm usually ok with girls most of the time i don't need to do the askin they normally ask me out. Partly to do with the fact that i'm quite attractive( not trying to be big headed) and because i'm a wimp. Yes i'll admit it i'm a wimp. I'm scared of rejection even if in some instances chances of success are high.

I'm just askin how you flirt cos i don't no how to normally i just be myself and that works, but it takes longer if i could flirt it would easier.

So how do you guys do it?

Reply 1

Nix!

11

If you have to ask, you wont learn. It's not something anyone can really describe how to do, it just comes naturally. Be confident more in yourself and the rest will follow suit.

Reply 2

Juwel

18

Just be cheeky and tease them and play with innuendo a little. But all in small measures, you want to remain classy. Happy flirting.

Reply 3

Gman1617

OP

innuendo ? Do you mean like " i want to ride you like a cow."

just jokin i aint a mooron

Reply 4

latentcorpse

12

innuendo was marginally more subtle than that last time i checked

Reply 5

scribble_girl

14

Woahhh... if this had been a thread by a girl I would have come up with all this stuff, but it's by a guy - and it just made me realise - I have no idea how boys flirt :s-smilie:

Yes with the innuendo, and no to the OTTness though :p:

Reply 6

thefish_uk

14

scribble_girl

Woahhh... if this had been a thread by a girl I would have come up with all this stuff, but it's by a guy - and it just made me realise - I have no idea how boys flirt :s-smilie:

Yes with the innuendo, and no to the OTTness though :p:

Damn... must mean that the sheer quantity of innuendos / perverted comments I drop on a daily bases must really give out the wrong message.

Reply 7

Q.E.D

12

How about for girls then... I have similar issues...

Reply 8

Nix!

11

Q.E.D

How about for girls then... I have similar issues...

Most of the time it tends to involve eye contact, flicking hair, cheeky gestures and if I'm really lucky a squeeze of the goods.

I'm not that lucky, it's why I don't gamble.

Reply 9

zain88

1

Nix!

Most of the time it tends to involve eye contact, flicking hair, cheeky gestures and if I'm really lucky a squeeze of the goods.

I'm not that lucky, it's why I don't gamble.

Gosh, is that what we do to flirt these days?! I must be really far behind...

Reply 10

scribble_girl

14

thefish_uk

Damn... must mean that the sheer quantity of innuendos / perverted comments I drop on a daily bases must really give out the wrong message.

Hey, I'm just one girl... could easily be I just like being the more crude one in a relationship :p:

Reply 11

thewalcat

look her up and down and say "hey. how u doin?" (yes i watch too much friends xD)

Reply 12

aza484

9

oh wow this thread is awesome. "Ride her like a cow" - I like that. It has a certain... class, about it. :p:

My favourite (never fails) is walk up to her and just say "Get your coat love, you've pulled". :biggrin:

Disclaimer:
1. Do not try either of the above mentioned.
2. I do not actually use that line.
3. I definitely do not use the: go up to bar/girl, crush an ice cube, and start a sentence with "now that the ice is broken.."

Reply 13

Juwel

18

Originality is priceless in the game of meeting women. Make yourself different, thus rare, and hence possibly desirable.

Reply 14

bright star

1

hey, the best line i've ever heard came out of the mouth of an original venga boy (i dunno which one, i can't tell them apart). they came to a club in liverpool on tour and they were so smarmy. he just came up to me and asked me if i'd like a ride on his vengabus..... maybe you could pretend that you're in the vengaboys and use that one.....

Reply 15

Nix!

11

bright star

hey, the best line i've ever heard came out of the mouth of an original venga boy (i dunno which one, i can't tell them apart). they came to a club in liverpool on tour and they were so smarmy. he just came up to me and asked me if i'd like a ride on his vengabus..... maybe you could pretend that you're in the vengaboys and use that one.....

Did you punch him in the face? I need closure!

Reply 16

Leigh

15

bright star

hey, the best line i've ever heard came out of the mouth of an original venga boy (i dunno which one, i can't tell them apart). they came to a club in liverpool on tour and they were so smarmy. he just came up to me and asked me if i'd like a ride on his vengabus..... maybe you could pretend that you're in the vengaboys and use that one.....

A claim to fame at least!

Reply 17

Lykabelle

12

bright star

hey, the best line i've ever heard came out of the mouth of an original venga boy (i dunno which one, i can't tell them apart). they came to a club in liverpool on tour and they were so smarmy. he just came up to me and asked me if i'd like a ride on his vengabus..... maybe you could pretend that you're in the vengaboys and use that one.....

loool, brilliant :biggrin:

Reply 18

Draculara

4

How bout just calmly walking up to the chosen girl and sweetly saying 'nice legs, when do they open'. That should work a treat

Reply 19

Yoda

12

I'm an expert at this. Basically, you have to bully her. Yes, thats right, bully her. Make fun of everything you can think of. Call her short. Laugh at her because shes rich. Girls never agree they're rich. Everything they say, you want to bully them about. Thats really all you need. Not so far she cries, but as long as you're on the edge, thats really all you need. Ask if you need any examples/further explanation, but thats really all you need aside from practice.

Nix, girls love sexual tension. You want to go one step further than she wants (experience will tell you how far she wants) and then stay there until she feels comfortable. Then go further some more. Creates a little exitement.

Q.E.D. girls flirt by generally being slutty, innocent, and cute all at once. So you want to give the message that you're up for it yes. You want to give the message that you're innocent. Self explanatory really. And you want to be cute, so all that making yourself look small *******s that girls do. I'm pretty sure you know what I mean more than I do, but theres just a pointer.

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