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Can someone explain this?

Alright, This girl that I like who I used to talk on MSN for hours before suddenly went abit distant but we've gotten closer again since then. What's been happening for the past week is that she comes online for a few seconds and as soon as I open a window she goes offline. This happens everyday 2 times atleast. Can anyone logically explain this?

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Reply 1
Anonymous
Alright, This girl that I like who I used to talk on MSN for hours before suddenly went abit distant but we've gotten closer again since then. What's been happening for the past week is that she comes online for a few seconds and as soon as I open a window she goes offline. This happens everyday 2 times atleast. Can anyone logically explain this?

Her Msn is ****?? as if you aint actually said hi or anything then she cant know your about to chat to her.
Reply 2
Sometimes she stays online, for example yesterday we talked for 3 hours. Today however she did the offline online thing twice. She said she had to leave for dinner about 5 minutes ago, and now she did the offline and online thing again. Surely if she was eating dinner this couldn't have happened?
Reply 3
MNBStyle
Her Msn is ****?? as if you aint actually said hi or anything then she cant know your about to chat to her.

Not really unless she has that new Messenger software. I forgot the name. Anyway i had that for a couple of weeks before removing it... it warns you EVEN if someone opens your messenger profile or that conversation path.
Reply 4
Abra
Not really unless she has that new Messenger software. I forgot the name. Anyway i had that for a couple of weeks before removing it... it warns you EVEN if someone opens your messenger profile or that conversation path.


So can you explain this and give a reasoning behind it?
Reply 5
Good grief, you honestly had to make a thread about this?

Is there anything the problem with what you have been talking about? Has she said something particularly problematic? Are you her friend? Are you her bf-to-be?

If the only problem is that her msn signs her in and out then this should be in one of the technology type forums...

Plus talking to someone 3 hours every day is quite intense isn't it. She might not want to do it EVERY day.
Reply 6
zain88
Good grief, you honestly had to make a thread about this?

Is there anything the problem with what you have been talking about? Has she said something particularly problematic? Are you her friend? Are you her bf-to-be?

If the only problem is that her msn signs her in and out then this should be in one of the technology type forums...

Plus talking to someone 3 hours every day is quite intense isn't it. She might not want to do it EVERY day.


Well, we did it before, for even longer. Everyday. She used to text me telling me 'Where are you' if I didn't come online. Yes, I'm her Bf-to-be I'll assume. I'm the only person who's spending that long with her. It's not her MSN signing in and signing out, I'm wondering WHY she's doing it if it's voluntary.. If not I'd like some kind of a reason behind it..
have you actually met her?
Reply 8
Yes, of course, we met almost everyday before, and now she's gotten kind of distant.
Reply 9
Maybe she just wants a breather after talking to you every day.

She might have other things she needs to be doing.

She might want to talk to you when she is relaxed and right now she is stressed.

Maybe her msn isn't working.

There are hundreds of reasons why she might be doing it, or why her msn might be doing it.

There isn't one logical explanation for it.

Ask HER. She's the only one who knows.
Reply 10
But do you think she's trying to avoid me? Is that likely?
Did you not just read the last reply? How on earth would we know?
Reply 12
I didn't say give me a statement on white paper telling me what's going on. I said do you THINK it's likely
Dude, it's MSN get over it. You're being too clingy and needy as well.
I don't think anything either way because I can't know that much about her from the 2 lines you wrote about the situation.

What I think, like everyone else here, is that it could be anything, and if you want to know then ask her instead of asking what random internet users who know nothing about her or the situation think :p:
god i HATE these.

IT'S NOT REAL LIFE, IT'S MSN, it's not as if she is blanking you to your face. she is probably busy, perhaps somebody using her computer signed into her account by mistake, perhaps she wanted to check her email but had no interest in talking to anybody online - there are a million reasons why she would sign in and sign out, and most of them would have nothing to do with you!!
Reply 16
RELAX

Like the last person said there could be a million and one reasons why this happens! Her internet connection, someone else using the comp etc... Why not just ask her? chances are she has no idea in the first place
Anonymous
Sometimes she stays online, for example yesterday we talked for 3 hours. Today however she did the offline online thing twice. She said she had to leave for dinner about 5 minutes ago, and now she did the offline and online thing again. Surely if she was eating dinner this couldn't have happened?



reasonable explaination to this scared possibly.
Seriously give MSN a break. It's a great communication tool for the odd piece of homework, weekend arrangements etc but talking to this girl 3 hours a day is far too much. This thread gives the impression you are obsessed.
Reply 19
If you're as close as you say you are, you could just ask her.