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dont know how to have a relationship!

Okay, I have managed to sort of get the guy I like. kissed him on saturday night and went round his last night to watch dvds and its all really nice... but the think is I have never had anything like this before. I never get the guy I like and I'm not really sure what to to next?! how do I keep him? I am so clueless! I don't know how to have a relationship! He's been in quite long term relationships before and I'm scared that I'm not gunna be good enough and he will just forget about me and find someone else.
any tips would be much appreciated!

Reply 1

Zoecb

Sounds promising to me, I wouldn't worry.

Go with the flow....

If he's been in long-term relationships before he'll probably help with furthering your relationship. Just enjoy spending time together, and things will just progress naturally. And talk to each other! Talking can solve many problems that may emerge!

Edit: As for the worrying that you won't be good enough for him, initially I used to wonder why my bf fancied me and was worried that he'd dump me, but you've just got to be confident that he must like you quite a lot to go out with you. The biggest turn-off is if you get clingy and keep saying you don't think you're good enough for him, because then he might start to think you aren't good enough. Mm, haven't explained that well at all. But you get what I mean? Inner confidence will show through and it will make him like you even more.

Reply 4

Anonymous #1

I'm just worried as I don't know how often to text him, meet him, phone him etc...
I'm sure it'll be okay though. thanks

Reply 5

theonehitwonder

Really, how many people would know 'exactly' how to have one?!

Just go with the flow..... note.. guys like the attention, and are very upfront about what they do and don't like.