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How does a guy act sexy?

Anonymous #1

As a guy, it seems easy for girls to be sexy. but how does a guy do it?

Girls, help me :redface:

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Reply 1

Ink

Being sexy is about being smooth. Knowing what to say, how to dress, how to walk. Having nice hair. A nice smile. Confidence in his actions.

I always think of "hot" as having the body.
"Sexy" is having the moves.

Reply 2

bunthulhu

Oooo, the dictionary definition of 'vague' ;smartass;

There's loads of different ways to be sexy. Depends on what type you're talking about. What kind of scenarios do you have in mind, what is it you're after? Attention? A one nighter? A girlfriend?

Reply 3

*Katie*

I think "sexiness" for guys entails a differerent criterion - being personally attracted to the person. Most girls can fulfil a male notion of sexiness with a skirt & a pair of boots, whereas I find that guys I am attracted to I find sexy - and it could come from a the way they laugh/smile, or even a particular interest/passion that's sexy! Or else just someone who's able to hold a debate and argue intelligently I find extremely sexy.
But in general (and to slightly contradict myself :p:

) there are some guys who just have it - there's this guy I fancy at the mo who has a sexy walk, voice, smile, EVERYTHING. There are certain people who will be cute/whatever, but never sexy.
Hoped that helped - if not, what a waste of my precious essay-writing minutes :p:

Reply 4

Sopheh

I don't think sexy is as important as other qualities such as charm, wit and kindness. Guys and girls look for different things, but then I suppose it depends on what type of girl you're looking for :smile:

Reply 5

bunthulhu

Sopheh

My point exactly :smile:

Reply 6

DoMakeSayThink

My girlfriend seems to think my playing the piano is sexy.... I'm pretty sure it'll vary from girl to girl, like all this stuff seems to.

Sexy talk.

Thank goodness Justin's bringing sexy back - he'll teach you a thing or two :biggrin:

Reply 9

Yoda

Just watch me for a hour or two.

Reply 10

hannah_dru

Just be yourself. No point being someone you're not.

Reply 11

Moriarty Man

Confidence is the most important thing, I'd say. Girls aren't gonna be attracted to a guy who hesitates, mumbles, blushes and stutters, are they? They might think it's cute or whatnot (if you're lucky), but they aren't gonna think, "man I'd love to hook up with this guy".

So confidence, and the ability to make interesting conversation works best. Dress well too, of course.

Reply 12

Inflicted

Just the xth person to say: "sexy is defined vaguely since it depends on what women look to be sexy in a man; and that, of course various between one another."

Best thing is to just be yourself, but in a somewhat contradiction I guess being confident helps, as well as being witty and...flirtatious?

Hope my vague answer provided some help...