so unsure of what to do!

this is fairly long, and sorry for the anon but i do know people on here.

basically, i have liked this guy ever since i met him, which was last july. he liked me back, btu said he didn't want a relationship, so last ocotober i tried to get over him by going out with someone else. that didn't last, we broke up, and i ended up back in a sort of casual thing with the guy i really liked. then, i ended up getting with someone else at a party just before christmas. when the guy i really liked found out, he asked me out, but STUPIDLY (and i really don't know why) i said no (like the idiot i am). and he got really upset and sad and i just felt awful and started regretting it but i didn't know how to tell him i wanted to go out with him after all. so i didn't.

i then decided i had to talk to him about it because i felt so bad about it. he had put his feelings on the line for me, and i threw it back in his face. i just didn't want to upset him any more. so last thursday i told him that i wanted to do whatever made him happy, and when i suggested we go out he said NO immediately. i then found out one of his friends had been telling him that "he could do much better than me" and setting him up with another girl, so i told him it was fine if he got with this other girl.. because i just wanted him to do what made him happy. so, on friday he did get with her, and he told me about it on saturday morning, and said it didn't mean anything and he didn't like her and i mean so much more to him than her.

i am getting such mixed signals! first he wants to go out with me.. then he doesn't, and now he's telling me how much i mean to him.. i just don't know what to do. i wish i hadn't turned him down.

any advice is appreciated.. i really need all the help i can get about this.. thank you

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Yoda

Say you want to, but you were really shy about it. Sounds pretty hilarous actually, if I ever get turned down, I might try it. Unfortunatly I can't see that happening, but hey, everyone has dreams.