Is this really bad?

I'm 17 and I've never had a boyfriend- the furthest I've got with a boy is kissing.

Is that so unusual?

HELP I feel like a bit of a loser. Not that I want to rush into sex or anything, just it'd be nice to have a relationship.

I don't seem to be able to meet guys and talk to them easily. Partially because I go to an all girls' school.

Reply 1

noodles!

No, i don't think so. You should wait until you're ready.

Reply 2

Beetle

No it's not bad at all. I'm 17 too and I've only ever kissed one boy and nothing more. I wouldn't mind a relationship but it doesn't bother me that I'm not in one cos so many people I know that are in relatioships have so many problems that I don't have. Plus, I'll get the chance to meet guys at uni. You're not abnormal and it def isn't bad so be happy! :smile:

Reply 3

kad

there's absolutely nothing wrong with that. 4 some reason, some ppl get in2 relationships quickly, & others dnt...simple as that. i can understand u feeln a bit strange abt it, esp if yr m8s r all hooked up, but jst enjoy yr freedom 4 now!

Reply 4

Hygeia

when i was 17 i'd never even kissed a boy - very shy and lacking in self-confidence, it's not uncommon i don't think!
give it time, i'm sure you'll eventually meet someone you have no problem talking to - i did!