about a girl....

so yeah basically, I met up with this girl last week, we got on really well and had a cracking time. Anyways, yesterday was supposed to be our second date, we were meant to be going to the cinema. She sent me a last min text saying that she had a new flat mate move in, and that her and her sis had to take her out on the town. She invited me along so I went.

I was kind of quiet and uninvolved. Im normally a bit shy but this was worse. As the night progressed I became more awkward and panicky, knowing it wasn't going too well. As everyone got drunk, she asked me about the way I was acting. The explanation i gave for my behaviour was unclear and pretty incoherent, she may have been weirded out by this. We did kiss, but on the whole she was more unaffectionate towards me. I think the rest of the group thought I was an aloof prick.

We got on so well in our first date, where she saw more of my 'positive' side, so to speak. However this has probably been called into question by my attitude and behaviour last night.

What makes it worse is that i really like her, and i'm sure she likes or liked me. Im tearing myself apart here, knowing that i may have ballsed this up.

Whats to be done eh?
mwah.x

Reply 1

Vohamanah

How about you ask her to go out for a quiet drink or something, just you and her, and explain to her that the way you were the other night was not like you. Tell her you were slightly overwhelmed by the situation and you'd like to make up for it. Take her out for a meal or something and say you hope that night hasn't affected her opinion of you.

It sounds perfectly reasonable that you were a bit panicky. It was a bit of a 'trial by fire' for you. You were expecting a nice night at the cinema, but you ended up out on the town with probably a gaggle of drunk girlies! I'm sure she will understand and may even be agonising and wanting to apologise for putting you in a situation you obviously weren't 100% happy with.