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Alone - Valentines Day woop :(

Oh yeah just a :frown:

post, its not nice being all alone on the stupid day, especially when all your mates have someone...
No point to this post just a :frown:

feelings majig lol
Feel free to post away hehe

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Reply 1

Milli

Reply 2

~the_one~

Totally with you on that one. Normally me and my friends do something nice on the day, but literally within the past month they've all paired up!
Valentines day isnt that great anyway, just another day.

Reply 3

Sazarina88

Treat yourself to something.

Reply 4

240920

Reply 5

filastini

it's just another day with a fancy name attached to it.

spend it with those who don't have a valentine? do something fun.

Reply 6

ohyeahoh

It sucks tho!
I don't so much mind not being with anyone, the guys I like have gfs and its complicated, I just feel left out when they all talk about their guys...and at the end of parties when people drift off home, its really loner like :frown:

Reply 7

ohyeahoh

Good point xmas is bad too.
Actually its all pretty bad, but especially the times when other people are being couple like.
Worst for me is literally ALL my close friends have someone :frown:

Reply 8

street

think how much money u save :wink:

Reply 9

ohyeahoh

LOL A good point...still hate the day, but most of all I hate hearing my mates plan it! And why do they all have to be couple like all the time! Now i feel rantful
PDA SUCKS! *green monster*

Reply 10

-!- Drew

street

think how much money u save :wink:

i think I would get more joy out of treating a girl rather than saving money!

Reply 11

MagicNMedicine

stress about something important people, being @rsed about Valentines day is another example of middle class people living lives of comfort inventing something to get worked up about because they dont have any real issues to worry about

how do people who are fighting poverty and oppressive governments go on when Valentines Day comes around, I bet they couldnt give a monkey****

Reply 12

guitargirl03

It does suck being single, but I plan spending Valentines day with my 2 bessie friends at uni. 1 of them is attached, so I'll probably spend the evening with my other flatmate watching a film...

Don't dwell on the fact that you don't have a boyfriend, just think of the freedom and the fun you can have!!

Reply 13

ohyeahoh

Magic guy...
We don't compare ourselves to these people though do we, it's human nature to judge yourselves against your peers. I fully bet that you, as we all do, stress about things that, were your economic situation different, you wouldn't 'give a monkey' about. However, it isn't and so you will.
Also middle-class, how wonderfull, your probably middle-class yourself...but your right the prolatarians arn't cultured enough to care for a saints day...not

(Sorry)

Reply 14

Ourkid

Just find something else to do - It's not the end of the world. The more sorry for yourself you feel the worse itll be when you come to the actual day.

You feel this way at the moment, but if you're with someone next valentines keep in mind all the lonely buggers and don't be as outward about it.

Big box of sexual chocolates, nice bottle of wine, film on the telly, beautiful.

w00tt

Reply 15

theonehitwonder

Stop complaining and find yourself a guy

Reply 16

ohyeahoh

:P Excellent advice there *salutes*

Reply 17

Ourkid

And be all desperate? That'll land her a guy. Don't expect much in the way of quality.

Reply 18

ohyeahoh

LOL

A guy isn't the problem...its THE guy...you know, like when you are sooo mmm for a certain someone nobody else matches up...we've all been there lol

Reply 19

Ourkid

Seriously stop complaining and get out there. Or be alone and be happy. Either way be happy. Life being sad is ****.

I'm leaving H+R forever now especially in the run up to and the aftermath of valentines...

w00tt