The use of vulgar language in regard to all forms of sexual inercourse

Am I the only one who finds the language that people use in regards to vaginal/anal/oral intercourse to be disgusting?

"I f'd my girlfriend"

That sounds like she's a piece of meat! =( That sounds like you don't care about her... =( It sounds so sick! You should love your girlfriend not ....her!

I don't want to give any more examples as just thinking about them makes me feel uneasy....

What's wrong with people? Don't they feel sick using such language?

Penis vagina, labia, scrotum and semen are not "dirty" words to use they're a lot cleaner then the words that people use...

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Reply 1

RobML

Original post by MylittlePlusle

How is using sexual slang any more objectifying than using the formal terms?

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Reply 2

Anonymous #1

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Reply 3

MylittlePlusle

Original post by RobML

How is using sexual slang any more objectifying than using the formal terms?

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There is no sign of love in the sentence.

Reply 4

RobML

Original post by MylittlePlusle

There is no sign of love in the sentence.

I don't see how saying "penis" instead of "cock" is anymore loving...

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Reply 5

Liquid Harvest

I don't find it vulgar or disgusting. I use all of those words, I like to make the girl feel dirty and slutty anyway.

Reply 6

localblackguy

Original post by MylittlePlusle

Please stop with the stupid threads.

I've never thought of the word blowjob as disgusting. Its blow + job.. Eating out is something one says for eating a restaurant, why is it disgusting when it comes to oral sex? Fingering someone isn't exactly a disgusting term either, its turning a noun (which happens to be one of our body parts) into a verb. I could go on but you should have gotten the point by now.

We're all pieces of meat, just with brains and consequently emotions etc. It only sounds as sick as you make it out to be, what word would you rather use than ****? Fornicate? Have sexual intercourse with? Engage in coitus with? They sound a lot more caring, right? :rolleyes:

Look up the origins of swear words and you'll realise that meanings change - thus the words themselves are as 'clean' as penis/vagina/labia/etc. are.

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Reply 7

battycatlady

Depends. I wouldn't want some randomer saying 'I'd love to **** her' as it's just degrading and shows a complete lack of respect for me as a person. Although tbh that makes me uncomfortable no matter how it is said.

I wouldn't mind the person I was dating saying it to /me/, but I'd rather them talk about me politely to friends, or, like, not at all.

On the other hand, in a bedroom scenario, I love vulgar language. I love being degraded and humiliated, providing I've consented to it first.

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Reply 8

MylittlePlusle

Original post by Liquid Harvest

I don't find it vulgar or disgusting. I use all of those words, I like to make the girl feel dirty and slutty anyway.

Ew...
The s word is a very bad word. It can be quite offensive to a lot of women. That word should be censored.

Reply 9

OhsoIntrovert

Original post by localblackguy

Look up the origins of swear words and you'll realise that meanings change - thus the words themselves are as 'clean' as penis/vagina/labia/etc. are.

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How we feel and respond to certain words is purely subjective.
They're just words.
You can choose how to respond to them- This is why some people on this thread don't find those words offensive

Reply 10

Liquid Harvest

Original post by MylittlePlusle

Ew...
The s word is a very bad word. It can be quite offensive to a lot of women. That word should be censored.

It's not a bad word. I use these words with strict discretion irl, only with certain types of girls. I wouldn't just randomly tell a girl she's a slut unless I know that she is, they don't take offence from it. Although one time, I tried to convince a girl that she's a slut but she got a bit upset.

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Reply 11

MylittlePlusle

Original post by Liquid Harvest

I personally think that no female should be ever called that term, it's very degrading, it's like the w word.

Reply 12

Kiytt

Original post by MylittlePlusle

Ew...
The s word is a very bad word. It can be quite offensive to a lot of women. That word should be censored.

You choose to take offense. You always have the choice, and I suggest you don't take it.

Instead, realise that they are just words with connotations which you yourself decipher and attribute negative meaning to.

For some people, they are mere synonyms to the formal terminology, and there is nothing wrong with using them. If you think otherwise, fine, don't use them—but don't complain when other people do differently.

You might find yourself a lot less hot and bothered about trivialities such as this if you had some proper perspective.

Reply 13

Liquid Harvest

Original post by MylittlePlusle

I personally think that no female should be ever called that term, it's very degrading, it's like the w word.

That's not true, because a lot of girls are sluts and they need to be told, and they often won't take offence from it. I would never say it just to anyone at random. It's not degrading if it's true.

Reply 14

MylittlePlusle

Original post by Liquid Harvest

That's not true, because a lot of girls are sluts and they need to be told, and they often won't take offence from it. I would never say it just to anyone at random. It's not degrading if it's true.

No, you don't need to tell them, you should accpet that that's how/who they are. They shouldn't be insulted.

Reply 15

OhsoIntrovert

Original post by Liquid Harvest

That's not true, because a lot of girls are sluts and they need to be told, and they often won't take offence from it. I would never say it just to anyone at random. It's not degrading if it's true.

'It's not degrading if it's true'

May I ask, who determines the truth from your perspective?

Reply 16

Josb

Original post by MylittlePlusle

Am I the only one who finds the language that people use in regards to vaginal/anal/oral intercourse to be disgusting?
"I f'd my girlfriend"
That sounds like she's a piece of meat! =( That sounds like you don't care about her... =( It sounds so sick! You should love your girlfriend not ....her!
I don't want to give any more examples as just thinking about them makes me feel uneasy....
What's wrong with people? Don't they feel sick using such language?
Penis vagina, labia, scrotum and semen are not "dirty" words to use they're a lot cleaner then the words that people use...