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Girls.... ARGHHHHHHH!!

Hi,

I am happy to freely admit that i have absolutely no understanding of the neurological workings of the female brain at all, and therefore I post this message in the hope that someone will take pity on me and advise me accordingly. How do you know the difference between when a woman really likes you and when she is just playing you?

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if shes good at it,

you know shes made a fool out of you when she laughs in your face.

Ask her out, then youl know
Reply 2
yes, girls are stupid and weird,
I hate girls. For a few days i felt so happy and now we're nothing; probably never speak again. I know it sounds dramatic but it broke my heart.

I'd say jump in feet first and screw the games so you don't have to worry about this stuff. If she wants to be immature and mess around with games then move on and if she likes you - great. If only i could take my own advice :redface:
Reply 4
What can I say? Girls are a nightmare! I can only apologise! Lol!
When you're clubbing or at a bar ask her if she wants a drink. If she seems flattered then she likes you, if she siezes on the prospect of a free drink like a magpie coveting a shiny bead then she's just playing with you.
Reply 6
Girls are like science. You have to have a degree before it's safe for anyone to take anything you say seriously.
Reply 7
Trust me, if only us guys had the secret. Unfortunately, we don't. As a result, we are shamefully made fun of at every occasion that presents itself. The tragedy!
Reply 8
Well im as much a mystery to myself as I am to guys :wink:

Reminds me of a book mum got for Xmas 'Everything guys know about women'

Nice large book with nothing in it :p:
look at her past sexual history.
and how good mates are you? some people are comfortable with just being a bit flirty with one another if they're mates.
Reply 10
Pitythechild
Hi,

I am happy to freely admit that i have absolutely no understanding of the neurological workings of the female brain at all, and therefore I post this message in the hope that someone will take pity on me and advise me accordingly. How do you know the difference between when a woman really likes you and when she is just playing you?


Were complicated. Just accept that.


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Sezkin
Were complicated. Just accept that.


:biggrin:


Id call it more annoying and emotional
I hate women, we're all b*tches, even nice ones! And confusing, I don't even understand myself... :s-smilie:
^ ditto....wish i could understand myself. :frown: let alone getting guys to understand.

OP: i think girls ask the same question about guys
Reply 14
Face it lads, if we don understand ourselves, u hav no hope lol!
Girls aren't complicated, don't flatter yourselves.

When girls like you they're playing you too. They just want things from you, be it emotionally, financially etc. First of all, don't go looking for the love of your life at a club. That's just a haven for shallow girls. If they truly like you, you'll know. You'll feel a 'spark' a 'signal' and you'll feel the same about them when you see them. You'll make each other smile if you interact or see each other anywhere and that's how it'll be. Unfortunately 99% of the girls today can be lumped into the shallow category.
Pitythechild
Hi,

I am happy to freely admit that i have absolutely no understanding of the neurological workings of the female brain at all, and therefore I post this message in the hope that someone will take pity on me and advise me accordingly. How do you know the difference between when a woman really likes you and when she is just playing you?



The answer to your question is that YOUR ASKING THE WRONG QUESTION.

You instead should be asking "whats the minimum level of effort I can put in in order to sleep with / go out with (depending on preference), this girl." If she likes you enough to even play with you, then the ball is in your court and all bets are off.

Failing that, sleeping pills in her rum and coke never fails.
Reply 17
Half the time, we don't know what we want ourselves. The other half, we're constantly changing our minds about it.

Yeah, we're horrible.

I'd suggest just grit your teeth and go for it; it's the only way you'll ever know.
Reply 18
Lol... At least we know what we are like... ha ha :wink:
Reply 19
Despite being all the aforementioned things, girls are wonderful. I love 'em!

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