should i?

theres this girl i kinda like. we're in a class together and she was in it last year too, but i didnt really acknowledgeher. this year though i seem to have fallen for her.

im thinking of asking her out after exams, but im quite nervous. i have NO idea how she feels about me (shes very shy, hardly talks around people she hardly knows). plus she kind of flirts with this guy on myspace, but he lives in another city and they almost never see, so im not so sure.

advice?

(sorry posting anon cuz shes a member at these boards)

Reply 1

paperclip

18

ask her, you have nothing to lose
but dont just say 'will you go out with me', ask her out for a drink/coffee

Reply 2

Cortez

17

Anonymous

theres this girl i kinda like. we're in a class together and she was in it last year too, but i didnt really acknowledgeher. this year though i seem to have fallen for her.

im thinking of asking her out after exams, but im quite nervous. i have NO idea how she feels about me (shes very shy, hardly talks around people she hardly knows). plus she kind of flirts with this guy on myspace, but he lives in another city and they almost never see, so im not so sure.

advice?

(sorry posting anon cuz shes a member at these boards)

Makes me laugh when people say that. I mean, if she really was a member on here, would you really ask such a question on here? With what you've said she'd probably be able to work it was you anyway.

You don't need to come up with a lame excuse for using anon, just use it.

Reply 3

ISH

9

Go for it, balls to the wall. Never know unless you try. At least ask her how she feels.

Read the following for a damn good reason not to do nothing...

http://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showthread.php?t=343853

Reply 4

hazm

Go for it, man the longer u spend sitting around thinking about it the chances of you actually going for it goes right down.

Reply 5

Anonymous #1

OP

i will then, next friday, after exams.

any idea what i should say?

Reply 6

Evil-Tuna

2

Start off with ''Damn, you're hot''. That way she's sure to fall head over heels for you. If it were physically possible.

Reply 7

Christo

14

if she flirts on myspace, then you're out of it pal.

Reply 8

Unregistered

Anonymous

theres this girl i kinda like. we're in a class together and she was in it last year too, but i didnt really acknowledgeher. this year though i seem to have fallen for her.

im thinking of asking her out after exams, but im quite nervous. i have NO idea how she feels about me (shes very shy, hardly talks around people she hardly knows). plus she kind of flirts with this guy on myspace, but he lives in another city and they almost never see, so im not so sure.

advice?

(sorry posting anon cuz shes a member at these boards)

Be her friend for a bit first. If she's shy she'll appreciate that more and it'll be much less awkward in the long run.

Reply 9

danni_bella

17

Yep, be her friend first and find out what her interests are. Once she sees you like her for who she is, she'll be so appreciative. Good luck! :smile:

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