The"Friendzone" does not exist!

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There is no such thing as the "friendzone"!

If someone doesn't find you attractive, they don't find you attractive. There's nothing you can do.

You just have to accept that they're not attracted to you and stop trying to get out of something that doesn't exist.

You can't make someone become attracted to you.

You can't make someone fall in love with you.

Friendships can be so much than anything else!

I have 7 female friends. I've had a crush on almost all of them none of them felt the same but that didn't stop our friendships.

What's wrong with just being friends?
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(Original post by MylittlePlusle)
There is no such ting as the "friendzone"!

If someone doesn't find you attractive, they don't find you attractive. There's nothing you can do.

You just have to accept that they're not attracted to you and stop trying to get out of something that doesn't exist.

You can't make someone become attracted to you.

You can't make someone fall in love with you.

Friendships can be so much than anything else!

I have 7 female friends. I've had a crush on almost all of them none of them felt the same but that didn't stop our friendships.

What's wrong with just being friends?
Right... who on TSR friendzoned Plusle?
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(Original post by MylittlePlusle)
There is no such ting as the "friendzone"!

If someone doesn't find you attractive, they don't find you attractive. There's nothing you can do.

You just have to accept that they're not attracted to you and stop trying to get out of something that doesn't exist.

You can't make someone become attracted to you.

You can't make someone fall in love with you.

Friendships can be so much than anything else!

I have 7 female friends. I've had a crush on almost all of them none of them felt the same but that didn't stop our friendships.

What's wrong with just being friends?
It sounds like it does exist.

In fact, it sounds like you live there.
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Right... who on TSR friendzoned Plusle?
No one. I do find someone on here cute though but that's just about it.

I have no issues with being just friends with anyone.
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(Original post by Smonnie)
It sounds like it does exist.

In fact, it sounds like you live there.
It doesn't exist! I don't see why a lot of males and some females are complaining about someone not liking them, that's life, they need to accept that their crush only sees them as a friend and they must me grateful for having them as their friend.

I've had a crush on about over 60 females, I've never once complained about none of them liking me
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Correct! It doesn't really exist, as in the case of a guy, if you're friends with a girl then she genuinely believes that you are just friends.
If you find somebody attractive then you don't necessarily need to become "friends" in the truest sense of the word.

That doesn't mean that they were never attracted to one another though. If you end up in the friend zone then you did not take action and were playing not to lose.
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Probably your only remotely decent post
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I've had a crush on about over 60 females, I've never once complained about all of them thinking I'm gay.
This is your major issue right here.
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Im in the middle (if that is possible) as I would never date any of my guy friends. Because I don't find them attractive but also because they are my friends...
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This is your major issue right here.
There is no issue. I've been told that I'm nice/sweet person, yes it does make me a bit sad that no one likes me but I just deal with it and wait for the right person.
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(Original post by MylittlePlusle)

If someone doesn't find you attractive, they don't find you attractive. There's nothing you can do.
That doesn't mean that it doesn't exist. It seems like you're implying the opposite here.
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(Original post by MylittlePlusle)
There is no such thing as the "friendzone"!

If someone doesn't find you attractive, they don't find you attractive. There's nothing you can do.

You just have to accept that they're not attracted to you and stop trying to get out of something that doesn't exist.

You can't make someone become attracted to you.

You can't make someone fall in love with you.

Friendships can be so much than anything else!

I have 7 female friends. I've had a crush on almost all of them none of them felt the same but that didn't stop our friendships.

What's wrong with just being friends?
Wow you must be building a nice house for yourself in the friend zone

In answer to your last question: no sex
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That doesn't mean that it doesn't exist. It seems like you're implying the opposite here.
No, it doesn't exist, no one puts people into "zones".
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Wow you must be building a nice house for yourself in the friend zone

In answer to your last question: no sex
The friendzone doesn't exist.

Sex isn't everything...=/
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(Original post by MylittlePlusle)

If someone doesn't find you attractive, they don't find you attractive. There's nothing you can do.
(Original post by MylittlePlusle)
No, it doesn't exist, no one puts people into "zones".
I'll bring the same quote to your attention again. From what you've said, either someone is attracted to you or they aren't. So don't people put them into two 'zones', one of which you can do 'nothing about'?
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(Original post by MylittlePlusle)
There is no issue. I've been told that I'm nice/sweet person, yes it does make me a bit sad that no one likes me but I just deal with it and wait for the right person.
The girls think you're their gay best friend because you like baking and cats and knitting and wearing frilly knickers and killing people in their sleep and stuff.
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The girls think you're their gay best friend because you like baking and cats and knitting and stuff.
There's nothing "ga" about baking, furbabies and knitting, all of those things are enjoyed by both sexes.
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(Original post by SeanFM)
I'll bring the same quote to your attention again. From what you've said, either someone is attracted to you or they aren't. So don't people put them into two 'zones', one of which you can do 'nothing about'?
No, if they see the as a friend, they see them as a friend.
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(Original post by MylittlePlusle)
There's nothing "ga" about baking, furbabies and knitting, all of those things are enjoyed by both sexes.
Hey, I'm not judging, I'm just telling you what the average girl will assume.
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(Original post by MylittlePlusle)
The friendzone doesn't exist.

Sex isn't everything...=/
It's where a girl you fancy says 'let's be friends' - you're stuck there.

It's not everything but it's better than no sex


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