Odd behaviour?

Will try to be short.

There's a girl I used to be with. We went out, were happy together, but it was long-distance and in the end it didn't work out due to various circumstances. We stayed in touch. Hadn't met up for months and months but then finally did not that long ago. When we met up things were great - both of us sort of slipped back into old ways and were quite touchy-feely (horrible expression as it is!) and both said it had been wonderful to see each other again and that we MUST do it again etc. And that we should talk more (phone, emails etc).

I didn't suggest getting back together because I don't think she would want to and it took me ages to get over her in the first place. But... the thing is - I took her at her word. I waited a few days then called. No reply. I sent a text and still nothing. This was about 4 days ago now. Also pretty sure she blocked me on MSN.

Could anybody offer an insight into what she is doing and why? I am seriously confused. Also upset because I like her a lot and at least want to be able to chat to her.

Thanks.

Reply 1

A Y A Z

Well no one can provide you with an 'insight'.
But we can speculate!

Let the crazy theories begin!

First of all, if she says that she misses you, I advise you NOT to believe what she says. She was with you before and probably had a hard time getting over you too. Seeing you after all these months brought back all of 'those' memories. She just wanted to re-live them. But then she must have said to her self: Why am I putting myself thru this again?

Wouldn't you have said the same thing?

Try again, and if you don't get a reply, move on. You had a hard time getting over her before. Don't spoil the rest of your life thinking about something that 'could have been'.

If you still like her talk to her (when she replies). Tell her how you feel and how long it took for you to get over her. Tell her that you won't be able to handle such a thing again and ask for a honest reply. If she cares for you, she will be honest and let you know how she feels about you.
Best of luck!

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

Sounds plausible. Thanks.

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