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Under-developed

I'm a 17 yr old male and I'm extremely under-developed I think I have a disease called Kalman's. I was at the doctors about a year ago and the doctor sent me to the nurse to carry out some blood tests. I was extremely embarassed because the nurse knew me and what the tests were for. The tests didnt work because they were taken at the wrong time of day for them to work. I was asked back but I dont want to go back to the doctors again. Its not the normal problem which most males have thinking they are an inch short etc its extremely small. I'm really worried because I dont think I will ever be able to have a relationship or children :frown:

I also get really nervous when I kissing a girl incase she touches me.what can i do?? i think this is going to take over my life until the day i die. I can just imagine people asking me in the future all the time why I'm not in a relationship! I have to wait to use cubicles when I'm out with friends and I'm worried they might realise why I dont use the urinals. I'm too embarassed to talk to anyone about this problem! I lye in bed crying every night.

Reply 1

JC.

19

whats "extremely small"?
and are we talking er,... arroused or not?

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

OP

about an one and a half inches flacid and about three inches when erect :frown:

Reply 3

Anonymous #2

Nothing you can do about it man, just get good at giving head, then it won't matter what size you are...the spot you want to hit is only 2 inches deep anyway.

Reply 4

Profesh

20

Anonymous

about an one and a half inches flacid and about three inches when erect :frown:

Sub-par, granted; but hardly fatal to the prospect of a relationship, or of conception.

Suffice it to say that your predicament could be far worse.

Reply 5

blissy

15

You need to go back to the doctors and have the tests. The nurses are professional and see potentially embarrassing results all the time. Better to get seen than suffer alone. There might even be a cure - hormones or something?

Can you smell stuff :eek:

Reply 6

JC.

19

k... im going to revoke my personal policy of not commenting on sexual matters for this one thread as your clearly upset although i'm sure a young lady will come along in a sec' and contest my opinon...

Most of the very sensual areas are not that deep inside. so @ 3 inches in you will have covered more or less everything anyway.

I assume you have normal fingers and a tongue? I assure you there is more than 1 way to please a lady!

When the g/f and I er... "play" for want of a better word... We mutually agree that neither one of us is "finished" untill we both are, as it were... :s

You need to open your ears to what your parter wants and not what you *think* she wants. I assure you, there is a world of difference between the two.

Just having penetrative sex would soon get dull and tedious after a while. switching things around and doing different things is what makes it interesting.

Its really not that much of a problem. It just gives you an opportunity to get good at other stuff that other guys might not pay so much attention to. Im sure which ever girl you end up with will apriciate that.

Relax my friend. its supposed to be fun! :smile:

Best,

JC.

Reply 7

Anonymous #1

OP

actually i have a really bad sense of smell unless i am really close to whatever the smell is.

Reply 8

blissy

15

Well then get thee to the doctor and get those tests done. Seriously. They are the only people who will be able to alleviate the physical symptoms. All need not be lost. I assume you'd have some sort of hormone treatment and at 17 there is probably still some room for growth.

I'm no expert, but your GP is. Bite the bullet and get another appointment.

Reply 9

Anonymous #1

OP

am going to have to get an appointed but am really nervous and am 18 in three months! am gona get an appoint asap.

thanks everyone

Reply 10

blissy

15

Good luck

Reply 11

Speleo

7

Profesh

Sub-par, granted; but hardly fatal to the prospect of a relationship, or of conception.

Suffice it to say that your predicament could be far worse.

Actually, using a data set given on Wikipedia, the micropenis threshold was 3.8" erect.

The more you know...

Reply 12

Profesh

20

Speleo

Actually, using a data set given on Wikipedia, the micropenis threshold was 3.8" erect.

The more you know...

Oh, I know that; but his permutation of the affliction can hardly be deemed such as to preclude conventional modes of sexual congress, although it might limit his options. Inferring by his original post, anyone would think him effectively emasculated.

Reply 13

hazm

3inches errect, man i feel for you. Get good at giving and it won't matter. You might still get some stigma but thats just life :frown:

chin up atleast u can hit some amazing spots for her :biggrin:

Reply 14

bader

Watch a documentary called Me, myself and my penis. Its a documentary about a guy, like yourself who does have a 3" erect penis and goes around asking. 90% of the girls he asked said they dont mind it being 3" as long as he knows how to use it properly (this includes porn stars).

Just watch it.

Reply 15

Anonymous #3

Hate to go anon, but will make an exception... Basically, I didn't have a condition or anything, was just running a little late. Went to the doctor, had a couple of tests, got referred to a specialist and had a few testosterone injections. Nothing too painful. Could work for you? Really not alot to worry about, they're professionals and have seen far worse! Go to the doctors sooner rather than later and don't let it take over your life. Hope this helps- stay positive!

Reply 16

minimo

15

As a girl, I can quite honestly say that if I was in love with a guy and then found out he wasn't very well-endowed, I wouldn't ditch him, so long as it was suffiently large enough for conception to take place. :smile:

If a girl loves, you she should love you for who you are, not for the size of your penis. Plus, I wouldn't like a guy to dump me coz my breasts wern't large enough or something and hence I feel it is important to return the curtesy. Plus, there is more than one way to pleasure a girl you know :wink:

. Do see your GP though, and good luck! :smile:

Reply 17

Anonymous #4

I know it's hard but try not to worry about it. I would go back to the gp if I were you and don't worry because it can still fulfill it's purpose. If I were married to you, it wouldn't bother me. I'd like my husband however he is. If a girl dumps you because of that she isn't a very nice person and not the one for you. And I'm sure there are other girls like me.
Don't worry. It's for a reason. It may not be clear now but eventually it will be.
:smile:

Reply 18

charliehelyes

maybe if u try shaving ur pubic hair it may seem bigger

Reply 19

Nix!

11

I would imagine that they have some form of hormone treatment for that at your age involving perhaps HGH and testosterone. See your GP, ignore his/her light hearted smirking and address the issue.*

Other than the obvious solution, I could recommend perhaps collecting and replying to those spam mails :smile:

* GPs are actually very unlikely to judge you so don't worry.

- BTW, only making light of a sore situation, I do generally feel sorry for you, I know for one I wouldn't wish it upon myself. Seriously see a GP and let us know how you get on :smile: