Is there anything I can do?!

I have a huge crush on the guy who was my tutorial partner last term. (which is really unusual, i never normally have crushes) We get on amazingly well - indeed have both commented on it. Last term I managed to put my feelings of fancying him aside and just tried to reinforce to myself that he's just a friend. The other night though we were dancing really close at a party (like grinding against each other) and then we had a really long conversation, about three hours. The combination of these things really brought back to me how much I like him and I can't stop thinking about it. He told me he thinks he might be gay, but he's not sure because 1)he hasn't had enough experience and 2) he thinks it might just be that he's not very interested in sex with either gender - he prefers to admire people in an aesthetic ideal way. I said "i've liked you since day one", but i'm not sure if he understood that to mean i've fancied him and he didn't really say a lot that directly responded to that. I haven't talked to him since then, only a few lame facebook and text messages. I was just wondering if there was anything I could do in this situation without making a complete fool of myself? I can't stop thinking about him but i feel so awkward about saying anything to him at all right now! Help please! (sorry for long message)

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He just told you he thinks he might be gay and that he's not really that interested in sex with girls (and boys)? It doesn't sound like he's in the right frame of mind to react to you saying that you fancy him in the way you want him to...

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