I think the problem lies in saying broad sweeping statements like "we have the most fair, beneficial system"... I think several Asian states have shown that their different ways of doing things can lead to economic growth etc far beyond our own. And in return for what? Usually trading in a few free speech rights, if you have everything else but not free speech (!00% anyway, it's mostly fine), surely that's a good trade?
I don't accept you saying things like - "they can enact whatever they want, provided they adhere basic human rights principles" - do you know how big the international debate on "basic human rights" is? The "core" of HR? Just because the west sees a certain right as "core" by no means renders it a core right. I admit my honour killing example was a very very bad one and not one I agree with. But what about claims that the right to development is the necessary one first, before giving Civil and Political Rights: on the basis that you need economic security in order to enjoy your CPR. The converse, of course, if that you need free speech in order to obtain development so you can criticise bad policies etc. However, you can see the merits in both arguments. Other societies are focused on communitarian rights and duties of the individual thereto. The western liberal idea is to give all the rights to the individual, which to some societies can be very damning to the social cohesion which has made their countries what they are today.
Another argument which exists is that economic rights are more important because the rights to food and water etc are vital to survival. Surely, if you're hungry, you don't give a toss about being able to join a trade union or the like. Odds on, because no-one has the initiative to think about it... all they want is food. There are totally different considerations of things which we take 100% for granted: food, water and the basics. Makes you realise once and for all how lucky you are.
However, you have all proved to me that you are unwilling to open your eyes (or most of you). I would have taken the exact same view as you a couple of months ago, which is why I am glad this year has changed the way I talk somewhat.