is this wrong?or just stupid???

maybe you should have just said how rude the daughter was being instead of slagging off her mum?

Reply 1

Yes it sounds like you were relatively rude to the daughter, and to slag off the mother in front of her own sister is just massively tactless. So yes, you should apologise.

Reply 2

Leisure17

It may be the grammar and the spelling but I don't quite get the story.

I understand you weren't very positive about one of your mother's friends. I think it is up to your mother to tell you what she thinks about your behaviour and then you can decide whether you think it is worth apologizing to the person/her daughter or whoever felt offended.
Children do missbehave and this might cause friciton between befriended parents but if they are good friends it should be ok. This person needn't love you and you needn't find her great. I remember when I was very small, my mum had this woman she was sort of friendly with. Her daughter was terrible. I just couldn't play with her. Once they visited and this girl pulled out everything I had. As a result my room was in a terrible mess. When the girl and her mum had gone my mother told me off for having such a mess in my room. I cried and told her it had been the other girl and that I hated her. Somehow this woman and her daughter never visited us again.

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

You should be able to speak your mind, but maybe in this case it went a little too far? Apologise to your mum, explaining that you really don't get on with this friend's daughter. It isn't your fault that all your mum's friends seem to be related.