here goes. im year 11 now and last year in year 10 in the summer term we had a trainee teacher in my technology class. we got on soooo well and i spent most of my free time with him doing my work. i really really liked him and well fancied him. but his placement came to an end..and in july he said goodbye to me. i was upset for WEEKS and WEEKS of my summer holidays and then..got over it. all of a sudden today we started talking about ex-teachers etc and his name came up. it got me thinking of him..i even typed his name on myspace and found it! i really need to forget him. i KNOW hes too old, i KNOW i'll never be with him and i KNOW i probably wont ever meet him again..but i still think about him..wonder about him..and dont know what to do help please!
for a start stop trying to find some way of looking for him- you are just encouraging those feelings
then go get a hobby, interest, have fun! - see friends, movies - there are plenty of other things to get your mind off of him... but seriously do the above first!
i DO do other things..im quite well known in my year and go out with mates to the cinema,bowling etc often but its like during lesson i just think of him and even at little times such as "oh he told me he liked this"
Well I fancied my Explorer Scout Leader for a year and everyone told me I was stupid and to get over it and I got really upset. But once I left Explorer Scouts we started going out! Turns out he liked me too!! And we are still going strong Good luck either way hun. xxx
how long has it been? nearly a year now! --- you need to get out there more - when you go to parties attempt to go chat to guys--- just to get you mind off of him?
Do not stress about it lmfao, continue to think about him its normal, what others dont know cant hurt them and theres nothing wrong with getting a little naughty with the old battery powered device if you catch my drift.
Well we are all like that when we fancy someone. You just have to keep telling yourself that nothing is going to happen, and try and focus your attention on something else. Get a hobby and if you already have one, put loads of effort into it.
Well we are all like that when we fancy someone. You just have to keep telling yourself that nothing is going to happen, and try and focus your attention on something else. Get a hobby and if you already have one, put loads of effort into it.
Its what I've done in the past.
Ditto!
I hate having crushes! All I can think about is the guy -
1.) Try to do/think about other things or.. perhaps space, politics, global warming ...
2.) Think about his negative traits and make them seem worse in your mind,
3.) Or, if (good god) he doesn't have any then just picture him on a toilet seat!
Well we are all like that when we fancy someone. You just have to keep telling yourself that nothing is going to happen, and try and focus your attention on something else. Get a hobby and if you already have one, put loads of effort into it.
Its what I've done in the past.
Although I certainly don't recommend/encourage anything between teachers/students (it's certainly unprofessional and breaks many rules)...
...Ofcourse it can happen!
But sound advice: Don't put too much attention on it!