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Reply 1

protection from harassment act 1997

Reply 2

Talk 2 her. Tell her how you feel. Honesty is the best policy.

Reply 3

is she fit? if so, just go with it. lol

Reply 4

Sounds like the typical "I fancy you because you're an ass" syndrome.

Don't be nice to her, don't be horrible either. Indifference is the key.

It's a crush, she'll get over it.

Reply 5

I was in a similar position. The best thing to do is to just tell her you're not interested, or tell her you have a gf or whatever. Just make her lose interest.

Reply 6

Its called a paper bag job.

Reply 7

turn the tables and follow her, she won't know what to do

Reply 8

Azza
Lolz to be fair i've never really said or done anything to her since yr9 (i'm in yr 13 now btw). And the thing is i'm a nice guy to everyone in school (or at least i hope lol). Yeah, and i did think that she'd get over it after i told the teacher but that seems to have strengthed her resolve even more lol. The thing is...i kinda don't wanna 'break any hearts' lol as puke-a-licious as that sounds!


Ok, first of all stop with the moronic vocabulary. Secondly, you already have your answer; if being nice, horrid and indifferent isn't working, you're only left with one solution. You need to crush her. I say 'crush' because there is no easy way to do it, but you need to make it crystal clear to her that she is never going to have a chance and her presence is becoming rather tedius.

Reply 9

well she is obviously no real threat judging by the light heartedness of this thread so just forget about her, let her follow you, if she wants to waste her days following someone whose not interested in her then good luck to her, at least you're guaranteed a witness if you ever get jumped or someone to pull you from a freezing lake, some celebrities have to pay for this ****

Reply 10

supernova2
Its called a paper bag job.

yeah, suggest that to her, and she'll probably stop stalking you, if she still likes you after that then thats pretty scary, maybe you should stay away from her

Reply 11

ask out one of her friends or some other girl in your class

Reply 12

Perhaps you could try talking to her parents and let them know their daughter is harassing you and if possible could they gently ask her to leave you alone?

Hopefully the embarassment would be enough to end her fruitless quest.

Reply 13

Azza
Lol i did that when she confronted me and it worked for like a week but then she started following me home...obviously she's harmless so that doesn't bother me but i've done alot to try and make her lose interest (i even went to the point of writing 'azza loves so nd so' in front of her and it didn't ruffle a feather :confused:


OK. So you have two options.

1. Find her someone else to stalk.
2. If that fails, totally embarrass her, so she would hate you. You tried the nice way out, but she's not having it.

Reply 14

Then, you're left with the public humiliation.

Shout at the top of your lungs in front of her friends "Stop following me, I don't fancy you!"

Reply 15

You can't have your cake and eat it I'm afraid. If you want to rid the head-case you'll need to play her at her own game.

Have you tried to talk to her friends about it?

Reply 16

Why don't you just tell her that you're gay? Or has someone else already suggested that?

Reply 17

Azza
Haha, my friend suggested that but then it'd just wouldn't work because people just wouldn't believe it as tempting as it sounded!


Why won't they believe it? It would fit in with the 'lie' that you are waiting until you are older. :wink:

Reply 18

Azza
Ouch! :biggrin: Apart from the fact that i flirt with some of the girls (mainly our hot english teacher :wink:), i've pretty much expressed by views on the homosexual persuasion aloud in class, albeit in a light-hearted manner


Hmmm. You're pretty much screwed then. Unless you simply kidnap her. PM me.

Also you could date/flirt with her sister if she has one or even best friend, I'm sure that will end everything between you.

Reply 19

Azza
That's been the outcome each year and methinks that'll be the reality at the end of this thread! Some useful suggestions most of which will be considered. Can't believe how exhausted my methods have been that i've had to seek the help of :tsr2: Lol thanks to everyone and, anyway, I better rest ahead of a full set of lessons with her tomorrow...:frown:


If they are science lessons, then I guess you get a break then..:smile: