feminine males

Girls clothes on blokes look daft no matter what. They're girls clothes for a reason. The only people who wear girls clothes who are male are emo's and funnily enough they all look like little weirdos.

There are plenty of options for you to wear as a male, so just try finding something you're comfortable with rather than wearing a frock.

Reply 3

danni_bella

As odd as this may sound, even though I still dig the whole blokey bloke look, I often find myself attracted to feminine men sometimes :redface:

Reply 4

supernova2

lots of guys wear tight jeans and t-shirts. Not really girls things but still in that kinda direction.

Reply 5

dan

Just go for it mate :top:

No harm in trying and if others don't like it then its their problem, not yours.

Reply 6

x-Jodie-x

I say go for it, too!
Tight jeans on guys look hot, IMO.

And danni bella, I'm with you on that :wink:

Reply 7

Pseudomuse

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Anonymous

Society today is filled with a range of different people. These days, when a boy dresses in girls clothing, it doesn't always mean he's gay. So what's everyones thought on this?

I am a "gay" male yet I know a very attractive girl when i see one. I'm suddenly starting to get feelings that I don't feel quite comfy in boys clothes and would like to spread my wings a bit. I don't really want to be a girl and i would never have any operations to change my sex. But more and more i get urges to look more feminine: clean shaven face, long hair, tight/fitted clothes. At the moment i don't quite know how to deal with what i'm going through. I'm a size small chest and size 30 waist, yet girls clothes always seem too short (on all men). I don't really want to wear dresses and stuff, just girl tops and fitted jeans.

I cant seem to tell any of my friends because they wouldnt understand and would think the extreme. Am i being stupid? Can anyone help me out with anything?

Cheers x

Go for it!

I know exactly how you feel because i have the urge to look a little more feminine. if you want to do it, do it gradually and people won't notice as strereotype you as much.

and no. your not being stupid! :hugs:

Reply 8

x-Jodie-x

I say go for it, too!
Tight jeans on guys look hot, IMO.

And danni bella, I'm with you on that :wink:

No they don't, they look gay.

Reply 9

dan

Nix!

No they don't, they look gay.

That's exactly the attitude that makes people worried to dress the way they want to. How very stereotypical of you :mad:

Reply 10

danni_bella

x-Jodie-x

I say go for it, too!
Tight jeans on guys look hot, IMO.

And danni bella, I'm with you on that :wink:

*Makes a new friend in x-Jodie-x* :biggrin:

Reply 11

Pseudomuse

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Nix!

No they don't, they look gay.

for christ sake! he is gay!
and besides why the hell should people avoid wearing stuff just because it looks 'gay'?!

i'm with danglenister on this one!

Reply 12

Dalimyr

pinkpinkuk

Hey go for it :biggrin:

You're not being stupid. You are being broad minded and are willing to try out new things, which is to be applauded.

Totally agreed. People shouldn't just wear certain things or look a certain way because it's "normal".

Nix!

No they don't, they look gay.

Silly, narrow-minded little child...
Actually, here's an idea for you. Take a look at this picture. That is a picture of a boy called Matthew "Alex" McLendon. Does he look gay to you? Be honest :wink:

Reply 13

Rouge

Dalimyr

Totally agreed. People shouldn't just wear certain things or look a certain way because it's "normal".

Silly, narrow-minded little child...
Actually, here's an idea for you. Take a look at this picture. That is a picture of a boy called Matthew "Alex" McLendon. Does he look gay to you? Be honest :wink:

um, looks like a straight girl? are you sure thats a guy

Reply 14

Dalimyr

Rouge

um, looks like a straight girl? are you sure thats a guy

Yes

Reply 15

tRG

Horseriders/Jockeys/Gymnasts/Cyclists/Divers (all the male ones) wear tight clothes/pants.. They still look manly to me.
*shrugs* I'm not for it, just an observation.

Reply 16

Dalimyr

Dalimyr

Yes

Ahem, just to elaborate a bit on that....

Back in 1998 Matthew McLendon withdrew from a private school in the US after parents complained about his crossdressing allegedly being a bad influence to younger children at the school (he was apparently threatened to either withdraw or face expulsion). I have a habit of using this picture when issues of crossdressing come up specifically because he looks so feminine, but trust me, it's definitely a heterosexual male :smile:

Reply 17

Oh yes, all jump on the band wagon against my view. It's strange how you all call me the child when you lot are more than likely the 'immature' ones.

Men should not wear women's clothes regardless of sexuality.

My attitude is what stops blokes walking around in frocks is it? Good.

Reply 18

dan

Nix!

Oh yes, all jump on the band wagon against my view. It's strange how you all call me the child when you lot are more than likely the 'immature' ones.

Men should not wear women's clothes regardless of sexuality.

My attitude is what stops blokes walking around in frocks is it? Good.

Read the thread starter's post before you start blabbing off then:

OP

I don't really want to wear dresses and stuff

And even if they did, that is their choice not yours. Whether you'd do it (or accept it) should have no bearing on their decision and it is your sort of attitude that is evident in general peer-pressure, not allowing others to express themselves how they see fit.

If the OP is comfortable wearing what they want then I say good on them.

Reply 19