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Should i react, or be bothered??? Help

This involves a ex mate basically, so nobody gets confused the reason for the following is because he got jealous of me being good friends with his ex when they broke up, he dumped her and treated her like **** and me and her never did anything and i never planned on it.
Anyway i live in a small area so its easy to spread rumours and apparently he was saying about me.
"I can only get other friends ex gf's, and when girls come to my house i like to have my fly undone so they notice"

The comment of course is total bull**** and i did find the bit about my fly very hilarious and lame, however i can't help but get myself down about it and wondering if i should react, i don't want people thinking im some relationship wrecking weird pervert when im nothing like that, i already had it out with him on msn few weeks ago and i decided i would move on, but it seems he can't :mad:

What are your suggestions?
Reply 1
dont sink down to his level! Just be the bigger person, and act bored with people talking about it. If you seem disinterested, and don't react, then people will stop talking about it, your exmate included.