How do I supress my feelings?

My problem is that there is this girl at college that I really like. Really like as in I think about her all the time. The problem is I dont feel I am good enough for her as she is really popular I dont even stand a chance. Certain days I see myself just staring at her for ages, and then feeling very depressed. But I dont want to sit there feeling depressed over her when I know that there is absolutely no chance she would go for a guy like me. So how do I stop myself from getting these feelings for her?

Thanks.

Reply 1

Milli

You might think you don’t deserve her, but you never know….she might share the same feelings for you. Don’t let that hold you back, give it time and get to know her slowly. Just be yourself. :smile:

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

LOL I dont think she notices me. We've never talked and it seems shes already got enough guys after her without me trying. Gotta be realistic Haven't I? No point reaching for the stars when you cant even reach for the ceiling :p:

Reply 3

Beetle

If you think like that about yourself then chances are other people, including this girl, will think it too. Get to know her otherwise you'll never know if she feels the same way cos she mite.

Reply 4

Zerforax

Use it as motivation to improve yourself to give yourself half a chance?

Reply 5

Anonymous #2

I can definitely sympathize with you man... I'm in sixth form right now and I always feel this way when I see girls I really like. When it comes to women I have pretty much no confidence at all... I know it's easier said than done, but you just have to either move on, or go for it. There's no use getting depressed over it though.

Reply 6

Milli

Beetle

If you think like that about yourself then chances are other people, including this girl, will think it too. Get to know her otherwise you'll never know if she feels the same way cos she mite.

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