hi i have been with my boyfriend for nearly 8 years now he is 30 and i am 22 years old my problem is i have put up with seeing him only on a weekend and only him phoning me on a weekend for the past 8 years but now i am having a real problem getting him to move out with me or have my baby or even get married which he asked me to do 6 years ago, he always keeps putting it off everytime i ask him to move pout with me he just says wait untill i leave college which i have no problem with except now he has just bought his mums house with her and he is now tied to his mum for the next 5 years i have gone round this all in my head and the only thing i can think of is he is seeing someone else but i cant see him doing that what can i do to sort this mess out please help?