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i don't know what to do about my feelings..

cut short:
i like an old friend who likes me back but he doesn't think we should be dating because of numerous reasons, one of them being long distance (about 4 hours. not very but it means i see him once in a couple of weeks). I do not know how i can just be friends with him because when we're together.. its just.. hmm well yeah we ended up making out the last 2 times i saw him.. he'd said we'd try(when he was here) but now he thinks we shouldn't date (now when he is back in uni). i do not know what do do because i still like him very much. i'm trying to distract myself but it doesn't work.. :frown:

Reply 1

ßlαcksωαn

You need to get over him. 4 hours doesn't sound like much but it does eventually start to chip into a relationship. Personally I don't think relationships can survive if you only see eachother once every few weeks and phonecalls. It's just not going to work out, plus he doesn't sound that keen any more to be honest.

Reply 2

insparato

Things can change during a certain length of time, especially since he's gone back to uni and the stress is back on. I think its abit naive to say he's not keen we dont know the situation well enough. Its a nasty situation to be in, i dont know what to suggest. You have two choices, you forget about him or keep loving him as you said last two times you were in person it got more friendly than one usually is with each other.