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Problems with my sister

Me and my twin sister both ended up at the same uni, we didnt plan to but it was kool for a while, i had a really hard time setteling in and having my sis there really helped, i never hung out with her mates (she has lots of different groups that she hangs out with) apart from a couple of days in the first week when i was really homesick. finaly in this semester i found some people that i got one with really well and started to have a secure group of friends around me, at the same time my sis broke up with her boyfriend so she spent quite a lot to time with me. now by all accounts shes more popular me knows a lot more ppl etc, but now she insits on hanging out with my friends at least once a week and has even started seeing them without me! also she now says that she fancies one of my guy friends, the thing is i really dont want her to go out with him because that would mean that she would spend even more time with my friends, i want to be independent of her and seeing as she knows so many people then it souldnt be a prob but it really is. what im trying to say i guess is am i being to harsh? or am i blowing it out of proportion?
thanx. xx
Reply 1
Well i went through the saem thing with my sister and i resented her for it. Thing is when i tried to talk to her she got my mother involved and it was just horrible. I dont know how mature your sister is but i would suggest talking to her and explain that you want to be independent and youlove her but you need to strike out on your own.