Girls, how do you feel about the guy not paying for you on the first date? Watch
And guys, what's the current ''environment'' in dating, do girls usually offer to chip in or not?
I regard the expectation that I should pay for someone else to be a red flag; I like independent ladies who can look after themselves. This isn't to say that I wouldn't offer to pay, particularly if I earned significantly more.
I wouldn't want him to pay for me, and I would try not to let him, unless it became so awkward from his insistence that it was easier to say OK.
So I'd rather he didn't offer, and he did offer, I'd hope he'd back down easily!
(Personally I won't mind...because I'd never go on one hehehe)