Feeling left out.

My close friends arranged something for the weekend and I didn't know about it until, one of my friend told me when I asked what she was going to do for the weekend.

Then I asked if I could maybe come along and enjoy myself along with them :biggrin:

(with a smile like that to show I was interested but secretly inside I felt hurt) BUT she just looked at me and ignored what I said then I repeated myself and she walked away to some other people.

When my other friend brought it up in front of me,I asked the question again to my other friends and they ignored me on that but changed the topic. I feel sooo bad as if I've done something wrong. :frown:

just a little rant.

But what do you personally think?

Reply 1

sawyer

there not proper friends

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

OP

It's really hard because I've been friends with them since yr7, now yr13. And all of a sudden they changed their attitude on me...It really hurts. I havn't been hanging around with them recently due to exams either...

do you drink?

can you ask them what it is that you have done? You may have said or done something that has hurt them, but it's so petty that you don't realise it. Just have a word with them, on MSN if that's any easier for you.

Reply 5

andy_1989

this makes no sense what so ever.. you need to need to talk to them and ask them why they don't want you there and if you have done anything wrong.. maybe their planning you a suprise party :biggrin:

Reply 6

sticcyiccy

I agree with all those above, that is really out of order.

Although for them to do that there must b something that you do or have done to annoy them???

Reply 7

Misogynist

18

They aren't proper friends. Just let them go.

Reply 8

teh_samby

13

How rude! If I were you I'd confront them and find out what the heck the problem is.

Reply 9

ames123

1

Not relevant as above post has been deleted! :smile:

Reply 10

AisAis

13

can you ask them what it is that you have done? You may have said or done something that has hurt them, but it's so petty that you don't realise it. Just have a word with them, on MSN if that's any easier for you.

Speaking from personal experience, I'd say MSN is the worst thing to use to talk to people in this situation. People that are usually have morals which stop them saying some things seem to forget them online because they don't look at who they're talking to, they just see the computer screen.

I can't stress this enough, it's something I really regret doing in the past.

there not proper friends

Comments like this aren't very useful. What's the OP going to do, say, 'oh, okay, they aren't my friends.... so I have no friends?' If everyone said that everytime someone did something hurtful - like in the OP's case - no one in the world would have any friends.

OP, do your friends care about the exams as much as you do? I know sometimes people get a bit pissy if you want to focus on work when they don't want to, so maybe tell them that's why you've been busy and remind them they're finished now?

Erh, friends are rubbish when they act like that. Sometimes I think life would be easier without them. :p:

Reply 11

xatm092

You aren't invited this one time. Deal with it. If it's more than once however, something's wrong. You need to find out from someone why they sudden;y don't like you. But I don't get invitied to parties etc. all the time but it's not because I'm not their friends it's because they are full in the number they want to come, or they don't think it will be my thing :wink:

Reply 12

danni_bella

17

Aww what meanies! :mad:

I know how that feels, I used to be the same until I started uni and became more confident in myself (and made lots of friends! :biggrin:

), so tbh they sound like petty teenages. I wouldn't worry about it :wink:

You're better than that and have lots of fun times to look forward to, take it from me :cool:

Reply 13

danni_bella

17

xatm092

If it's more than once however, something's wrong. You need to find out from someone why they sudden;y don't like you.

So OP, just sort of slip it into the conversation and say something like 'hey man, how you be? :biggrin:

Noticed something was up :confused:

wanna share??' or prolly more eloquently than that lol, that was just an example :laugh:

Good luck x

Reply 14

rachel_64

2

helenkr

can you ask them what it is that you have done? You may have said or done something that has hurt them, but it's so petty that you don't realise it. Just have a word with them, on MSN if that's any easier for you.

Nope I bet you she hasn't done anything wrong, the same thing happened to me when I was in year 8-9 so I just ditched them and found some real friends

Reply 15

Llamaaa

15

you are probably right, but sometimes girls can be petty so there may well be something amiss.

Reply 16

Trigger

18

id ask them flat out why they wont let you come.

Reply 17

Anonymous #2

they arent real friends..trust me.

Reply 18

Cushti

10

I've had groups of 'friends' in the past who did the exact same thing to me. Just try and find a new social group, it might be hard to adjust and fit in with a new group at first, but in time it'll be cool I'm sure. :smile:

Feeling left out.

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