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Can anyone help?

hmm...i dunno, it's hard to say if it's just 'friend' behaviour.

maybe u should invit her about for a drink just u two, and actually get to know each vther and have long conversations, and see where thingos go from there?

xxxx

Reply 1

~*JESS*~

Depends really - only you can tell if she likes you, we can't really say. Does she act this way around other people too? As it's all pretty normal 'friend' stuff, I'd be inclined to say no, unless it's special treatment for you. How about asking her? :smile:

J x

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Anonymous #1

~*JESS*~

Depends really - only you can tell if she likes you, we can't really say. Does she act this way around other people too? As it's all pretty normal 'friend' stuff, I'd be inclined to say no, unless it's special treatment for you. How about asking her? :smile:

J x

I don't know if she acts this way with other people to be honest. Well, i've never seen her messing with anyones hair etc like she does with me, but just because i've not seen her do it doesnt mean she doesn't do it :s-smilie:

. Likewise i've not heard her shouting anybody elses name in the canteen, but it doesnt mean she doesnt do it. Obviously I don't know what she does on msn or who she texts or smiles at so I don't really know <becomes more confused>.

And like I said im a pussy :frown:

! I don't think i've got the balls to ask her out yet, I fear rejection too much lol.

Thanks for the reply though!

Reply 3

ames123

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From what you have said, I really wouldn't know. Is she shy or quite outgoing?

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Nix!

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It could be friend behaviour. Perhaps you should try getting closer to her before you get stuck in the 'friend zone'?

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Anonymous #1

ames123

From what you have said, I really wouldn't know. Is she shy or quite outgoing?

I'd probably say shes more outgoing than shy, but she definetly has a shy side to her as she blushes when talking to me when im with friends and ends the conversation fairly quickly.

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ames123

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Anonymous

I'd probably say shes more outgoing than shy, but she definetly has a shy side to her as she blushes when talking to me when im with friends and ends the conversation fairly quickly.

Hmm well if she was shy and liked you then if like me, she wouldn't shout at you from across the room or ruffle up your hair. It does sound like friend behaviour, a really good friend, but I could be wrong, not that I would know lol. You may have to do a little dectective work!

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Nix!

11

OP, do you actually consider each other as 'close' friends or more as acquaintances?

If it is the latter, the answer is she probably does like you.

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Anonymous #1

I wouldn't consider her a close friend, no. Like I said we never really discuss anything much other than what we've been up to recently etc. Whereas with the people I consider close friends, I tell them near enough everything. I've not known her for that long either, like 2 months? or so..

But ye maybe you can see why it's so confusing?! Some of this behaviour is quite obviously what a friend would do to a friend, but I can also see how it could be immature flirting and such.

Argh :mad:

Reply 9

Anonymous #1

prash_s90

It does sound like a friend relationship , but i could be wrong. You should just be straight and ask her (if you are afraid, then text her). If she keeps talking to you and tries to get involved with you, or if she keeps touching you or something, then that means she could be interested!!! Check these things before confronting her!!

I do text her and when I do she texts back. The conversation usually wears off after about 8-10 texts each though (probably for credit reasons..) And she does continue to "touch me".. whether this "touching" is her way of being friendly, or more, I don't know! :frown:

Could you explain what you mean by "involved" please?

Thanks for all the replies.

Reply 10

Evil-Tuna

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does anyone else think anonymous is a bit too polite? suspicious.

Reply 11

~*JESS*~

Anonymous

I don't know if she acts this way with other people to be honest. Well, i've never seen her messing with anyones hair etc like she does with me, but just because i've not seen her do it doesnt mean she doesn't do it :s-smilie:

. Likewise i've not heard her shouting anybody elses name in the canteen, but it doesnt mean she doesnt do it. Obviously I don't know what she does on msn or who she texts or smiles at so I don't really know <becomes more confused>.

And like I said im a pussy :frown:

! I don't think i've got the balls to ask her out yet, I fear rejection too much lol.

Thanks for the reply though!

If not now, when? You should - you've gotta face rejection at some point, it's a part of life. You can't go on jus 'wondering' if she likes you - take action and ask her. She'll respect you for having the guts to ask her, even if she only likes you as a friend.

Reply 12

Anonymous #1

Evil-Tuna

does anyone else think anonymous is a bit too polite? suspicious.

Well firstly im polite in general.

Secondly, I don't think i'd get many helpful responses if I was rude, would I? :redface:

And ye, Jess what you say is probably right. Just need to pluck up some courage now I suppose..

Thanks everyone.

Reply 13

Nix!

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Evil-Tuna

does anyone else think anonymous is a bit too polite? suspicious.

Care to expand on that thought?

Reply 14

Anonymous #1

Kropotkin

It's actually really funny, worm. We're having a PARTY over here - like this one :party:

Maybe when you have friends you can have one too. We have lots of parties.

Your "parties" involve you resorting to internet forums to mock people? Wow you are cool. Your life must be great :cool:

.

Reply 15

~*JESS*~

Anyone else think this thread's getting just a wee bit off topic?

Reply 16

Anonymous #1

~*JESS*~

Anyone else think this thread's getting just a wee bit off topic?

Ye, sorry about that.

If anyone else has any more advice or opinions they would like to share, they'd be appreciated (unless ofcourse they are specifically said with the aim of putting me down :rolleyes: