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Holiday Romance

I met a Spanish waiter while I was on holiday in Tenerife and we had fun while I was out there, but it was only for a week. We exchanged numbers at the end of the holiday and we message most days since I have been back home. But shortly after I came home he started asking me to go back to Tenerife to stay with him for a week or two. I kind of avoided answering the question because I'm not really sure about staying with him when I don't really know him. But he keeps asking and he can't easily come to England because he's Moroccan so he would need to get a visa.
So I need some advice. I would like to see him again but I'm really not sure about going out there alone. Should I just go for it?

Reply 1

Hmm..
1- You could talk a friend or two into going with you, however they would need to be comfortable in the fact you won't be with them for the holiday. This would mean there's still people there that you know in case it all goes 'tits up'.
2- Go on your own... but you would need to ensure you are able to contact friends or family at home to have the safety net in case of an emergency.

Sorry for sounding doom and gloom on the most part but I do think you should go, just with a clear mind in ensuring your safety :smile:!
I met someone on holiday a couple weeks ago and he came to visit last week, we got on amazingly and it was fab!! So pleaseee go visit him hehe it could be great for you :smile:

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