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Reply 1
Go away and re-phrase your question so that I can answer with something that actually has content.
Reply 2
Im attracted to looks if im after a quick shag. Im attracted to looks and personality if im after a relationship :smile:
guys will say whatever the heck here and there, but i assure you it's all looks as a first impression thing...
Its all first impressions, Im generally more flirty with girls if they are attractive, but if a girl is average but I get along with I wud take her for a relationship
Reply 5
If you don't make any effort at all when you go out, nobody will be interested. To a certain extent, your looks are mainly going to determine who starts taking to you to begin with. Then it's all down to personality. :smile:
Reply 6
As people have said looks is important for first impression, but not always. however if you have a really good personality, you most likely be able to get into a relationship!
Personality wins hands down every time for a relationship. Looks dont last forever. A personality can :smile:
Reply 8
I can't saying being pretty doesn't help, but I personally put personality first. Everyone has something about their body that us guys can like. My current girlfriend may be relatively flat chested and plain faced, but the way she blushes when she plays sport or gets hot and bothered makes my heart melt :smile:
The guy I'm considering maybe liking (but mainly because my mates are like "you two are acting like a couple") has a fab body.
I usually go for guys with a bit of chubbs, but he's so toned, and has the most gorgeous back and chest.
He has a dazzling personality. Just don't know if I fancy, fancy him! Kinda sucks!
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My current girlfriend may be relatively flat chested and plain faced, but the way she blushes when she plays sport or gets hot and bothered makes my heart melt :smile:


I must say I love it when a girl blushes. They always look so cute! Aww. :p:
Reply 11
Absolutely.
Most definitely.
Reply 13
Looks and personality.

You need both for a good relationship. Personality alone isn't enough. Sorry!

For drunken pulling looks matter more however.
Reply 14
I wont lie, looks do count. But personality means a hell of a lot because there are certain character-types that (although I would talk to them out of courtesy) I find utterly repulsive.

Interests count for a lot but usually I love for a girl to have a brilliant personality :top:

Sense of humour, hobbies, taste in music, mannerisms etc. are all important but don't always need to be perfectly matching.
i only like clever women i aint into the hoes lol
She's asking whether you put looks FIRST. The first thing I look for in a girl are her looks, then her personality and I think I'm speaking for the entire male race here because we don't look at a girl and say WOW, GREAT PERSONALITY WITH A STABLE FAMILY UNIT!
I have to admit, nothing pisses me off more than a girl who takes herself too seriously. My friends all agree. Women: Be Yourselves :cool:
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She's asking whether you put looks FIRST. The first thing I look for in a girl are her looks, then her personality and I think I'm speaking for the entire male race here because we don't look at a girl and say WOW, GREAT PERSONALITY WITH A STABLE FAMILY UNIT!


What? You talking for me here? Entire male race? No. :smile:
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What? You talking for me here? Entire male race? No. :smile:


Will the small appendaged man stop talking for all of us?

How do you even know what a girls personality is like without talking to her? You can see what she looks like straight away, so the first thing you look at are her looks.