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How long into your relationship was your first kiss?

All my friends are giving me different advice on this so I thought I would ask you guys.

I have had a girlfriend for less than a month and valentines day is coming up and we are going to the cinema. What I don't know is do we kiss??? I'd really like to know when the first kiss came in your relationships as this is my first serious relationship (I'm 17 years old) and I've never kissed a girl before :s-smilie:

So what do you suggest, TSR?

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Reply 1

TBH my first kiss normally comes BEFORE we start going out...or to seal the deal of going out.
Do it when it feels right.

Reply 2

I don't quite understand. What have you two been doing so far if you haven't yet kissed her?

Reply 3

Around a month before we were officially going out.

If we're only counting the time spent officially in the relationship though.. about 3 seconds.

Reply 4

yer, just go with the flow dude it will come.

Reply 5

Just kiss her.

Reply 6

First date - Cinema.

First kiss - on the way to the cinema lol

Reply 7

First kiss is like 0 minutes after entering a relationship:p:, pretty much as everyone above me has said... Just kiss her when it feels natural though=)

Reply 8

Wow now I feel weird. We've just been out bowling and to a restaurant. Maybe I'm getting worked up over nothing :redface:

Reply 9

-2 days...

Not just kissing, I'd say I need to do other things too before deciding to call something a relationship.

Reply 10

in all the relationships ive been in (serious or not) ive always kissed them quite a while before we started going out

Reply 11

I have only had 1 serious relationship and I had my first kiss with her like 2 or 3 months before we properly went out, just kiss her when it feels naturally to you don't want to do it out of a moment especially if its ur first

Reply 12

Its cute! Its nice that you've spent the time getting to know her and doing fun stuff first. A lot of people rush into things a lot these days but don't feel pressured because most other people kiss them earlier. Whenever you feel you want to just do so!

Personally, with my current relationship our first kiss sort of was the start of everything, we'd known each other for a while and thats when it became serious - we never actually asked each other out. But it hasn't always
happened like that!

Just do what feels right for you :smile:

Reply 13

I think I ruled-out a relationship about two minutes into my first kiss.

Reply 14

Yeah I don't want to rush things but half of my friends are telling me I should kiss her on valentines day :s-smilie:

Reply 15

Ignore your friends, if you want to kiss her then, do so. if you want to kiss her before, don't wait just for then. If you'd rather wait, wait. There's no set way to do these things - if there was - there'd be no need for H+R!

Reply 16

xatm092
Yeah I don't want to rush things but half of my friends are telling me I should kiss her on valentines day :s-smilie:

You do not _have_ to do anything, and especially not because someone else thinks you should.. Do it if you feel like it! It shall come naturally=)

Reply 17

Like 4 days after we met.

Reply 18

Depends, sometimes 5 minutes, other times a couple weeks.

Reply 19

FireDeuce
or to seal the deal of going out.

yea thats what i thought.

Anyhow, just be confident.. sit close to her so u dont have to lean over too much and feel awkward, or better still wait till you are leaving each other for example if you walk her home, and say 'thanks for a really lovely night, your such a special person to me' and then it wil come naturally to you both that you are ready to kiss. move close so your bodies are gently touching then lean slowley in for a gentle, controlled kiss. :smile: