The Student Room Group
Reply 1
Let it flow ;}
Reply 2
I used to worry about this loads! But there really isn't a set way of doing it, everyone kisses slightly differently, and yeah you can use tongues, but don't have to, just depends on what you/other person prefers. If you're worried, let the person you're kissing lead you for a bit, and copy what they're doing until you feel confident about it.
Reply 3
you dont have a toungue...
Reply 4
To be honest..everyone will say the same thing in regards to advice to kissing but seriously..dont worry,just relax and trust me everything DOES come naturally..if ur more of a flirty confident person then you will absolutely no problems at all..make sure your at least kissing some bloke/girl you actually like instead of a randomer on a night out..then you can adapt on your techniques as such x
You could try and build your confidence by practicing with a friend, if it would help you feel more confident, not sure if you would be at ease with that, I wouldn't be but I know other people who have, and it's just a though...

I think the key is not too stress. If you stress, then you will analyse what you are doing a lot more, and this will probs be reflected on the person to whom you are kissing.

My advice would just be to take a deep breath, relax and let things happen the way they are intended. As someone else said, everyone kisses differently. I would suggest that you make your tongue rub against your partners, maybe swirl it about a fewtimes and just see what happens - follow their lead, until you get your own technique.

You will be fine - just don't stress!
Reply 6
Comes naturally tbh.

Just watch films LOL. Dunno if that will help, but I've seen it suggested somewere...
Reply 7
Bedshaped
Comes naturally tbh.

Just watch films LOL. Dunno if that will help, but I've seen it suggested somewere...


She should watch porn and kiss like a pornstar, its a surefire winner...
Reply 8
Just be natural, be yourself and Im sure it be fine. there is not set way of kissing.
There's no art to kissing, the best kisses are the ones that just come naturally, just as long as you're doing more than just leaving a ton of saliva in her mouth :wink:
thw worst thing you can do is stress so calm down and let it happen!
be sexy!