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is this bad?

a guy i have liked for ages, has a girlfriend, well i sent him a txt sayin its a pity i didnt ask him out before he began his relationship, because he drives me wild and i cant get him out of my head, etc. is that wrong?

Reply 1

Anonymous #2

Nah not really, you're fine :p:

Lol. Yes I've done this too :redface:

However I dropped the contact after that :wink:

You just have to think, would you like it if someone did that to you after being in a relationship for 3 months or whatever.

Huge wide world out there, I'm sure you can find someone else.

Good luck!

Ooh anon1 I have a story for you too now we're on the topic (kinda). I used to like someone out of reach, then fell for his older brother's best friend. Hit on him, but he was an idiot and told everyone I was slutty for doing that.

Then on his myspace he goes 'I wish more girls would approach me' ???

I dunno, perhaps I have a habit of going for guys who are mean, what do you think?

Reply 2

ßlαcksωαn

not wrong, just don't get in the way of their relationship too much.

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

phew, i didnt think it was too bad but im scared to turn on my phone in case i get an angry response...

god no i wouldnt ever get in the way

anon 2, yeah youre probably like me, and go for men in complicated situations!

Reply 4

Anonymous #2

Anonymous

anon 2, yeah youre probably like me, and go for men in complicated situations!

Aww then I'm thinking you must be a cool person who is individual in her thinking, go you :biggrin:

Reply 5

Anonymous #2

Yeah I don't even deliberately do it either, so I just know where you're coming from. You're an awesome girl don't worry :cool:

Reply 6

lil one

I can imagine how you feel :hugs:

I would never do it, incase the guy was upset with me or something. But I don't think its bad, just not ideal :p:

Reply 7

djmm

I did it, role-reversal obviously, just a month ago. She was with P for 10 months and on-the-sly with another, G (sure managed to keep it quiet too, they did). She got rid of P the week after I told her I liked her, so I tried it with her but she said her head was mixed up (too right, stupid cow) and wasn't wanting it. No problem, but then on a nightout she tried it on with me all night, having planned it for days beforehand ''where you going on Friday?'', ''decided where you're going yet?'', ''oh well, I'll see you tomorrow and you can tell me then'' et cetera. Ended up, after knocking her back --to reciprocate more than anything-- for a while I ended up with her. Since then she got back with G-- this time making it official by telling everyone, and me and her don't speak, of my own volition because she's a two-faced bitch but nevermind.

Just an insight into how it can turn out (not so good)! Best of luck. :smile: