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15-never been kissed- never had a bf.

this sounds really lame but well im 15..never been kissed..never had a boyfriend.
alll my friends have, and i feel the odd one out. i just dont fancy anyone and so like..dont want one.
is that normal?

Reply 1

Hanzing

13

Yes, Its up to you when you want a boyfriend and when you have your kirst kiss, dont worry. These things will happen when they do, I mean im 20 and have never had a serious boyfriend. (Nothing longer than a month) but its jsut the way it goes.
If your not interested in these things just yet dont worry, im sure you will soon and you dont need to feel like you should because your friends do!

Reply 2

Anonymous #2

I'd never been kissed or had a boyfriend till I was 16 (almost 17) don't worry about it, I didn't want a boyfriend until I fell in love with this guy. Just be yourself and do what's comfortable :smile:

Reply 3

Anonymous #3

Being 15 and never having a boyfriend is no big deal. These things take their time.

Although it may sound pathetic and sad, the longer you wait for something the better it will be.

Reply 4

Lucia.

16

Anonymous

this sounds really lame but well im 15..never been kissed..never had a boyfriend.
alll my friends have, and i feel the odd one out. i just dont fancy anyone and so like..dont want one.
is that normal?

aww don't worry about it :hugs:

I'm 17 and I've never been kissed or had a boyfriend...

It will happen in time

Reply 5

Spleh

Good lord my good woman, that is nothing to be ashamed of! I myself was a fresh seventeen years of age before I first locked lips with a lady for the first time. Take heart, there are those amongst the citizens of the world for whom love and companionship will always seem to elude them, but it will catch up eventually...like the Terminator.

Reply 6

Hev456

11

Darling, I'm 17 (nearly 18, which is even more depressing) and haven't had either either :frown:

It'll happen when it's meant to (lame, and hard to believe, but it helps).

Reply 7

Anonymous #4

time will come. I was 16 when I had my first proper kiss and 18 when I had my first proper boyfriend. pfft, age- It means nothing :hugs:

Reply 8

Anonymous #5

SO... WHAT... seriously,.. what is this? It's not that big of a deal,. I read Threads all the time saying Ooh im a virgin/never been kissed, is there something wrong with me? Girl i'm telling you, It's nothing.. Do whatever you feel like, WHENever..no pressure to get a boyfriend

Reply 9

illmatic

I had my first kiss with someone I genuinely liked and that's how I see it should be... I have a friend who's actually beautiful, stylish, clever, funny and ticks all the boxes and shes 19 now waiting for the right guy to kiss..... Just do what's right for you , you obviously haven't done it for a reason , so why doubt yourself? :smile:

Reply 10

fleur de lis

15

Of course you're normal :smile:

Don't worry about it, it'll happen when it happens. And don't feel you have to have a boyfriend just cos everyone else has, wait till someone worth your while comes along, there's no hurry you've got plenty of time!

Reply 11

Eternity Forever

12

Maybe you're attracted to the same sex as you? :dontknow:

Reply 12

Anonymous #6

Anonymous

this sounds really lame but well im 15..never been kissed..never had a boyfriend.
alll my friends have, and i feel the odd one out. i just dont fancy anyone and so like..dont want one.
is that normal?

You're nuts. Seriously. It's TOTALLY normal. You don't HAVE to be in a relationship, it's not a requirement for life. Just chill out, you're only 15, and you really shouldn't be thinking of relationships right now anyway. I'm 17, and in the same situation as you, but it doesn't bother me one bit. You say you don't want a boyfriend, so don't get one, no one's forcing you. Forget what your friends say.

The youth of today are freaking me the hell out. It's scary... Just 15 years old and already under intense peer pressure to go get laid.

Reply 13

987436987097643123245

Its totally down to you

Reply 14

Ourkid

12

Anonymous

You're nuts. Seriously. It's TOTALLY normal. You don't HAVE to be in a relationship, it's not a requirement for life. Just chill out, you're only 15, and you really shouldn't be thinking of relationships right now anyway. I'm 17, and in the same situation as you, but it doesn't bother me one bit. You say you don't want a boyfriend, so don't get one, no one's forcing you. Forget what your friends say.

The youth of today are freaking me the hell out. It's scary... Just 15 years old and already under intense peer pressure to go get laid.

Scary thing is that this is becoming normal.

Lol when I was 15 having a gf was holding hands and pecks on the cheek. Anything more was just embarrassing! Is there something wrong with me? :rolleyes:

Reply 15

cutandpasteandtwisty

11

Anonymous

this sounds really lame but well im 15..never been kissed..never had a boyfriend.
alll my friends have, and i feel the odd one out. i just dont fancy anyone and so like..dont want one.
is that normal?

Not lame at all. When I was 15 I had NO interest in girls at all, and I like to think I'm normal/great.

Reply 16

Chewwy

17

there's no ****ing problem. took me a lot longer.

and if you want to just kiss someone, as a girl it's incredibly doable. find a guy at a party, and it'll happen.

Reply 17

Cushti

10

Don't stress about it, I've never had a proper boyfriend :frown:

. Tis quite common really.

I'm sure we'll both find someone in time :biggrin:

Reply 18

Ellsbells3032

9

I';ll tell you something when i was 15 i felt the same way...never kissed a guy and my friends would all go out and kiss loads of guys. but ask any one of them about their first kiss they will tell u it was with a guy they didn't like and it was absolutly awful and they wish they had waited til they found someone they liked
I was sixteen as i wanted to wait for a guy i really cared about and i did, he was 17 and it was his first kiss too and it was sweet and romantic and comfortable. we ended up falling in love and went out for six months and though things ended badly between us i have no regrets about having him as my first kiss...cos he was what was right at the time!

Reply 19

Phantom Phoenix

13

I know about three people who had boyfriends at your age, OP, and most people I know first kissed someone at 16/17. I was 17 and didn't find my first boyfriend for years. I got my first SERIOUS boyfriend last September. I'm 20, by the way. And I agree with whoever said above that the youth of today are under scary amounts of pressure...what the hell is with the deadlines? It's like someone's got a tickchart somewhere and you're not normal unless you've kissed someone by 14, got laid by 16, experimented with the same sex by 18...for goodness sake!

15-never been kissed- never had a bf.

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