Help, what do i do?

Ok, before everyone starts flaming me and telling me i'm nasty cheater, my boyfriend and i discussed this before the relationship and agree that getting drunk and having one kiss with a random isn't cheating but anything else is. Anyway i went out with my mate, got drunk and kissed this guy. Being drunk i didn't realise what i was doing and broke my rule of not giving out my number and now said guy wants to meet up, yesterday beinga bit dizzy hungover and generally out of it, i said yes. Now i'm thinking straight, I don't wanna go. I dunno what to do, should i stand him up and ignore his texts or what? Help, i don't wanna meet up with this guy, it would be fine if i thought he just wanted to be friends, but i'm pretty sure he doesn't.

Reply 1

Tyrannosaurus Cal

15

Just don't respond to his calls/texts. Or tell him you're really not interested and that you don't want to meet up with him after all because you have a boyfriend

Reply 2

beach surf babe

14

Be honest. Tell him your attached...end of story

Reply 3

Jennybean

13

Ditto beach surf babe...what is the big problem with telling him you're sorry but that it was a drunken mistake and you have a boyfriend?

Reply 4

Louenn

Jennybean

Ditto beach surf babe...what is the big problem with telling him you're sorry but that it was a drunken mistake and you have a boyfriend?

And as you & your b/f have discussed the possibility of this happening, tell your b/f about it, and get his support too.

Once this other bloke finds out you're attached, he'll run a mile anyway.

Reply 5

Anonymous #1

OP

I can't tell my boyfriend. Another agreement we made at the beginning is although we don't mind each other doing it, we don't really wanna hear about it. Plus he would be mad at me for agreeing to meet up with this guy and accuse me of trying to start an affair.

Reply 6

illmatic

beach surf babe

Be honest. Tell him your attached...end of story

STRAIGHT!!!

Reply 7

thatwhichiam

14

Yeah, it's as simple as everyone says - tell him you have a boyfriend. He won't want to know after that. If he does, just ignore his calls. He'll get the message.

Reply 8

Louenn

Anonymous

I can't tell my boyfriend. Another agreement we made at the beginning is although we don't mind each other doing it, we don't really wanna hear about it. Plus he would be mad at me for agreeing to meet up with this guy and accuse me of trying to start an affair.

Well, hopefully this other bloke will leave you alone, but if he keeps on pestering you, you will have to tell your boyfriend, otherwise the strain on you will damage the relationship far more than simply telling your boyfriend that you make a mistake.

Reply 9

Phantom Phoenix

13

To echo everyone else on here, just tell the guy you have a boyfriend and you're not interested in starting a relationship with anyone else. That should get rid of him. If he keeps pestering you, ignore his calls or change your number. You can get a new SIM card for £2.99 and it saves tons of hassle. :smile:

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