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Say you just started talking to a girl and you really got on with her, she is good looking very nice etc, but then started going through a REALLY tough time but carried on talking to you nicely... would you fall for her even more and want to protect her?
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I would care about her more than I did before and try to protect her.
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Yes i would try everything in my might to protect her
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(Original post by toonervoustotalk)
Yes i would try everything in my might to protect her
You don't want to be over the top though. You need to be measured in how you attempt to help/support/protect her.
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This is a very odd question...if you fell for someone of course you would want to protect them if they started going through a bad time? I'm just trying to imagine the alternative answer to your question - 'nah I'd stop falling for her and tell her to get to fook now that she's got problems' - bizarre question!
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(Original post by william walker)
You don't want to be over the top though. You need to be measured in how you attempt to help/support/protect her.
Of course
No one wants to be the clingy boyfriend
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(Original post by AvaAdore)
This is a very odd question...if you fell for someone of course you would want to protect them if they started going through a bad time? I'm just trying to imagine the alternative answer to your question - 'nah I'd stop falling for her and tell her to get to fook now that she's got problems' - bizarre question!
I think what the OP is talking about is. If you like someone and they are having a hard time do you tell them you like them or wait and protect them?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vHgdenQwDbk
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Yes I certainly would fall for her more and want to protect her. I like comforting girls when they are in need. Gives me satisfaction.
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(Original post by toonervoustotalk)
Of course
No one wants to be the clingy boyfriend
Unless she wanted you to be clingy.
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(Original post by william walker)
Unless she wanted you to be clingy.
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hmm. I should hope someone would care more. My ex started calling me needy when I was going through a really tough time and told me to talk to someone else. Hence why I broke up with him
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(Original post by AvaAdore)
This is a very odd question...if you fell for someone of course you would want to protect them if they started going through a bad time? I'm just trying to imagine the alternative answer to your question - 'nah I'd stop falling for her and tell her to get to fook now that she's got problems' - bizarre question!
Actually, sadly enough, I have had guys pull away from me when I went through difficult times. Even after months of speaking. They claimed that they didn't sign up for all that - they just wanted a mess free, carefree, no strings attached girlfriend it would seem...
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hmm. I should hope someone would care more. My ex started calling me needy when I was going through a really tough time and told me to talk to someone else. Hence why I broke up with him
Fair enough. Another man without honour.
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Of course I would want to be there for her

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(Original post by SallySparrow66)
Actually, sadly enough, I have had guys pull away from me when I went through difficult times. Even after months of speaking. They claimed that they didn't sign up for all that - they just wanted a mess free, carefree, no strings attached girlfriend it would seem...
I don't doubt that, I was saying its a bizarre question because not may people would be like 'nah I'm a real *******, I'd ditch her' except of course the attention seeking trolls on here who like to pretend they're soooo badass who shall remain nameless!
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(Original post by william walker)
I think what the OP is talking about is. If you like someone and they are having a hard time do you tell them you like them or wait and protect them?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vHgdenQwDbk
Ohh. Well personally I would say wait - be there for them during the hard time don't be telling them you fancy them
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(Original post by william walker)
Fair enough. Another man without honour.
Most definitely. He proceeded to cheat. Basically a checklist in how not to act as a boyfriend.
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I'd definitely want to give a shoulder to cry on if she needed it.
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Aw there are lots of nice people here
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I definitely would. But sometimes you gotta know when to give her some space.
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