Do most girls just use a man for his money

My mums on benefits like she always borrows money and expects me 2 pay 4 stuff I've only got a lil money now I ain't even working I do volunteering it's getting really jarring now

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Reply 1

stargirl63

So the thread is more about does your mum just use you for money, as opposed to girls in relationships?

Reply 2

Zechs

Your mother does not represent most women just a section of women in society.

Reply 3

Rory :)

Cut her off and tell her she isn't getting any more money and till she gets out on those street corners either on her knees "escorting" or selling rock.

Reply 4

drowzee

Oh yeah, we rinse them dry until they are drier than the Sahara desert...

Reply 5

meadow11

I couldn't care less how much money someone has, as long as they're a nice person, I'm happy.

As for your mum, have you mentioned to her that borrowing money is becoming an issue? My mum expects money from me for things like rent and to go towards food shopping, however I work so it's not really a problem.

Reply 6

william walker

I know would if I could. :redface:

Reply 7

Little Popcorns

You're her son you silly moo

Reply 8

nadzworldz

Original post by LD1000

My mums on benefits like she always borrows money and expects me 2 pay 4 stuff I've only got a lil money now I ain't even working I do volunteering it's getting really jarring now

Maybe she doesn't have enough money and she may borrow to provide for you I'm guessing. Does she never buy anything for you? To answer your question, of course women don't use men to for thier money. :smile:

(edited 8 years ago)

Reply 9

hihihihihi

Depends if she's a gold digger/trophy wife.

Sigh.

Well she born you so your money is her money as well
There is an unwritten rule somewhere about it
I know for a fact that my first paycheck is going to my mothers bank account
All the rest of the paychecks go to my account :biggrin:

Reply 12

picklescamp

my ex was the richest guy I've ever met, and will ever meet, in my entire life. He used to want to buy me stuff and take me to expensive places all the time and it made me uncomfortable because I like to pay my half in a relationship. So for me at least I would never use a guy for his money, it makes me too dependent and I don't like exploiting people.

Reply 13

struggler07

That's true but it's jarring now and yeah she buys stuff for me everyday

Reply 14

struggler07

Nah I haven't mentioned anything to her I actually feel sorry for her I'm trynna help her by looking at jobs in voleteering now at some charity shop it's hard work some times I feel like selling weed to help her

Reply 15

queen-bee

I have enough money to live off comfortably,no need to ask a guy for anything

Reply 16

struggler07

Could be any girl because that's what most girls do if there broke on benefits

Reply 17

struggler07

Loooool f that that's my job G that's y mans on road lining up shots see if they smoke weed

Reply 18

struggler07

U sure what if one day u lost everything n was on benefits

Reply 19

thecatwithnohat

Original post by toonervoustotalk

That's a tradition in my family also, I thought I was the only one.

For every new job I start, a portion of my first payslip is given to my parents and the rest goes to me :lol:

In response to OP, I don't think girls look for if a guy has money before she dates him. I think it only becomes an issue when she's the one who has to pay every time you both go out together.