girl at uni

How should I ask though, and when is a good time? Should I do it while we're having a good night out, or at the end of such a night, or before going out?

I've been meaning to talk about it for ages, but then when she's around I just chicken out and don't talk about it. It's really playing on my mind this!

My good man, with my fiancée it took me over a month before I plucked up the courage to confess my feelings. I understand your predicament, but if you show great fortitude now you can reap the rewards later. Best of luck to you

Did you happen to arrange your engagement through her father? Have you married into that filthy thing called 'business'? Marriage these days is so hard, preserving the pure blood of the upper class is so difficult in this age of industrial revolution and falling land prices...

There's this girl at uni who I'm kind of going out with, but it's not that clear. )(At times she's really into me, but others not so much) But she doesn't make suggestions that we should meet up, or do things, and it's always me who has to arrange stuff, and even though live quite close end up only seeing each other at weekends. Are some girls just like that, or isn't this that normal. Would u say it is a good idea to talk and try and clarify the situation, or just see how things go?
thanks

I believe a splendid time to approach this delicate subject is in a casual setting, for example if you two find yourselves socialising in another's room or somesuch. I personally would not ask her before, during or after a night out, but that is just my eccentric opinion. Above all, do it when you two are alone.



My good man, with my fiancée it took me over a month before I plucked up the courage to confess my feelings. I understand your predicament, but if you show great fortitude now you can reap the rewards later. Best of luck to you