Would you enter a polyamorous relationship?

and why/why not?

I probably would cause it'd be something different and i like boys and girls so like i wouldnt mind and i feel like im capable of loving/liking loads of people and sex would probably be different but like theyd also be problems like with jealousy and stuff cause im pretty possession as well.

okay thoughts.

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Reply 1

GrimSower

Original post by ilovereading

Me and the gf would, you in? :wink:

Reply 2

ilovereading

Original post by GrimSower

Me and the gf would, you in? :wink:

lmao, its just a theoretical question.

Reply 3

username1504091

probably not. I'm really possessive

Reply 4

Odd socks

I don't think I could, I get jealous too easily

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Reply 5

Man.bear.pig

I wouldn't enter it, knowingly. But would I leave if I found myself ending up in one...? I dunno. Can't fathom it but it doesn't sound ideal for sure.

Reply 6

GrimSower

Original post by ilovereading

lmao, its just a theoretical question.

^.^ , seriously though, no I wouldn't because it'd probably just get too emotionally complex for me.

nah

Well if it was just a casual, short term thing, maybe I'd go for it as I'd take any kind of relationship experience at this point :lol:

But in the long term, hell no, I couldn't deal with the idea of my partner sleeping with someone else, I'd just be worrying the whole time that her other partners were satisfying her better than I could, or that she'd prefer spending time with others to me, I'd be constantly paranoid haha.

Reply 9

thecatwithnohat

I would never share my guy with another girl :naughty:

Plus you always hear stories about how threesomes go wrong and the girl for the night became the regular girl in your boyfriend's text messages :rofl:

Reply 10

ilovereading

its not always about sharing your partner, its about loving 2 of them at the same time.

Reply 11

The Warsmith

Original post by Odd socks

I don't think I could, I get jealous too easily

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Same here.

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Reply 12

MetalAlchemist

I don't believe in it.

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Reply 13

WildBerrySpirit

I'd say I'm indifferent towards the idea. If ever the situation arose, I'm inclined to think that I would enter such a relationship, although I'd probably have my reservations too. I do believe it's possible to love more than one person romantically.

Reply 14

Mankytoes

Original post by ilovereading

its not always about sharing your partner, its about loving 2 of them at the same time.

Theoretically, but in reality most actual examples I've heard of are where a third person has joined a relationship. It's possible that three people could meet and form three equal relationships, but it seems very unlikely. Really, I think there will always be a power imbalance. Just keeping a normal monogamous relationship going is enough stress for me, it seems like these relationships must be so dramatic, unless everyone is mega chilled.

Also, I'm heterosexual, so it could only be with two women. I know some guys see that as a dream, but I don't see that as a fun experience. I like my alone time, and I can't see the women getting on.

Reply 15

ilovereading

Original post by Mankytoes

hmmm i see wat you mean about the power imbalance. I guess id go for it if it was a short term kinda thing for fun ya know. Preferably a female and male, just for something different.