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dont understand his behaviour

Ok, there is this guy who i do not fancy. But anyways im wondering what his deel is as im thinking this might get out of hand. He has a girlfriend but they are in a long distance relationship. Firstly whenever im around he talks bout me and even ive heard him say stuff when im not around(eavesdropping by accident!). He constantly says I smell. I dont smell! but goes on..what sthe smell..blah blah. And the other boys now laugh.. He does make it funny but sometimes goes way too far. Im never sure how to react. Every ten minutes he'll talk of me even if im talking to someone else i hear my name. He does stare at me and when i notice he gives a grin. This just confuses me. When i say ive had enough he appologises and asks for a hug. Once he said to annoy me hes going to play with my hair??? ooo the pain lol! When i ignore him he'll chuck something at me (which sometimes hurts). Hes constantly playing and demanding attention. When i go out he asks if i pulled to my friend infront of me. Though hes quite rude...like moving my stuff so have to walk to the otherside of the room, or trying to get my keys. Not sure if this is any help but hes the very sarcy type who likes his videogames. He keeps insulting me publically and its becomming some sort of hobby then i see him looking at me and i have absolutely no idea what his game is..or what hes playing at, or how to react. :s-smilie:
Reply 1
Let him know how you feel. If you tell him firmly to leave you alone, he may stop harassing you.

If this doesn't work, have a word with the police. They will be able to have a word with him (informally, unless you press charges). :smile:
Def. tell someone who can help you! A professor, counselor, just so long as you trust them and they can talk to him and tell him to back off of you. You might also consider finding a way to publicly embarrass him; that might work. Make a scene; get other people noticing what a jerk he is.